by kublikhan » Mon 10 Oct 2011, 17:48:14
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Pops', 'A')ctually I think a lot of survival has to do with attitude. Eeyore strikes me as one to just lay down and give up - even though he probably has all the bad scenarios plotted down to the nth degree!
That pessimists who "plan for the worst and hope to be proven wrong" are outnumbered in modern America by optimists who 'plan for the best and ignore the rest (until they are eaten)' may not say much about long term evolution.
I agree with you here that survival has alot to do with attitude. And I think having an optimistic attitude can increase your chances of survival. The fact that 80% of us are optimists would seem to bear that out in reality as well.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'W')e don't usually think of optimism as a survival skill, but that's exactly what it is. In this article, I'm going to show you precisely why it's a skill... and why it's absolutely essential for life. When you start to see optimism as the ultimate survival skill, you'll begin to deliberately improve that skill, and the rewards will be phenomenal.
By adopting an optimistic outlook on life, we can achieve more and live longer. The tendency toward certain types of reactions is real. All other things being equal, the optimist will be most likely to survive a life-threatening situation.
In fact, a study in 2004 of nearly 1,000 people found that optimists have a 23% reduction of the risk of heart disease, and a 55% reduction in all causes of death. Think about that. Just by being optimistic about your life, you reduce your risk of many different life-threatening diseases. A more recent study of nearly 100,000 women over the age of 50 found that the optimists were 30% less likely to die of heart disease.
When we think of survival skills, we usually think about things like "learning how to build a fire" or "learning how to perform CPR". We equate survival with the basic necessities of life itself — food, shelter, clothing. Survival skills are about keeping you alive. So how is optimism a survival skill? Without it, you will die. In fact, optimism is the ultimate survival skill, because it empowers every other survival skill. Imagine a pessimist trying to light a fire. Now imagine an optimist doing it.
Whether you're facing a boardroom of clients, a blank page in your book-in-progress, or someone who needs CPR, optimism is the skill that points you to the road of life.
I think maintaining a healthy optimistic attitude will go a long way to helping you in life, in good times and in bad. That doesn't mean ignoring reality and having faith everything will work out ok. That is more like idealism than optimism. The article I linked to breaks it down in more detail if you are interested. Sounds like many on this board have sharpened various other survival skills like growing your own food, etc. It might be a wise for a few to sharpen up that optimism skill as well. It might help more than you think.