by spudbuddy » Sun 29 Jan 2006, 12:45:01
wow.
This topic could get touchy pretty fast, couldn't it?
I've noticed how many youthful posters show up in the psychology forum
(often reacting, as well they should - to the idea that the big bright best of all possible worlds they've been promised, is as substantially sustainable as cotton candy...)
-read a book last year, can't remember by whom...about this strange trend going on in N. America - seems youth is not loved, somehow.
The author was quick to point out all the social rhetoric about family values and blah blah...young parents with young children that dote on their kids, as well they should...
but this weird phenom was along the lines of an aging and touchy bunch of investors, property owners (people who've played the system for the last 40,50,60 years)...who really don't like young people.
Well, this book made me sit back and think:
The social economic order I inhabited between the ages of 16-25 allowed me to survive and get along quite nicely as a free-thinking independent.
I didn't have to kowtow to old farts to get along, so I didn't. I respected the elders that I figured deserved such, ignored the rest of the blathering bunch, and thrived.
The cost of education, housing, food, transportation - required nothing more than a little hard work. (not a crippling debt-load!)
The idea that modern music plays any essential role in moral decrepitude? oh lord -
One can have just a wonderful time examining old clips - first watch the young teens and twenty-somethings throwing each other about on the dance floor ( circa 1942 as America geared up for war)...and they called it jive. And moralists went nuts.
Fast forward to a 1962 sock hop and watch their kids doing the same thing. Their parents were jivin' to swing jazz -(and promptly forgot all about it) - then their kids were rockin' to R&R.
And the moralists went nuts.
Where the hell are the spokespeople for youth today? Who combines a bit of common sense with all that raging hormonal energy?
Who comes on the radio anymore and croons the latest outrageous howls of dissent, hurls salvos of contempt at the "guessers" (as Kurt Vonnegut calls them?)
A strange aquiesence pervades the land.
Let us not forget that youth are often prone to imitate their elders.
(as mentioned by Heineken)
Ah - I remember that charming old lament of Harry Chapin's about a cat's cradle ---I also remember how enormously popular that song was many years later when I knew a crowd of youngsters growing up without fathers in a housing development.
I always though it was indeed the way of the world, that elders had the power (political sway, money, property, ownership) and that youth shook the bloody foundations, rocked them good (to see how strong they really were.)
As a test, don't you see.
Who does that anymore?
Blaming children?
I'm not talking about children!
Children stop being such at about the age of ten. (listen hard to the cries and whispers in any schoolyard)
after that, they're adolescents (teen wannabes) after which, well, they become that -
after which they very quickly (quicker every decade) become something akin to a young adult.
They are challenged, often encouraged to become just that.
Responsibilities, encouragements, but most especially acknowledgement of the simple fact they are often smart enough to clue in to the game that's going on out there in the world...leads us to ponder what do we do with this coming enlightenment?
When bidding wars drive up real estate prices in a fine old Phildelphia neighborhood, because the local elementary school has a fine academic reputation for standards of excellence, and the local social elite has been driven frantically mad by obsessive worry that if the little darling isn't in that particular institution, then they are doomed to failure in their academic career...well, is the horse not now driving the cart, I wonder?
Which wonderment leads to simply this: where and how did a sensible social order of democratic common sense turn into a corporate-branded jungle fever resembling a snake devouring its own tail?
I mean, what can a poor boy do? "cept sing for a rock and roll band?" (as the song said) - I'm still wating to hear it!
jeez - America was urged to go shopping - shop til it dropped (after 9/11).
There's our moral guidance? Lets for Godsake preserve the shareholders' dividend value!
When my son was 14, I used to point vaguely out the window and mutter in an abstracted sort of way about the jungle fever (having not a clue, other than a disturbing disquiet, some speck of instinctive mistrust) about the secrets of a harsh world. The warped misguided loaded rules of someone's self-serving greedy game.)
Now I know better.
Which is why I applaud his higher education. How it guides his fortunes in life is beyond my guesses.
He's no fool, is all. (and good sense is still a marketable asset in today's economy, thankfully.)
To UIUC 01:
I actually refer to a particular community west of Toronto in southern Ontario, Canada.
Oakville has thrived much on its auto industry of late (ironically) and its affluence is astounding. This of course, is not the average norm throughout the entire region.
An interesting book for you (unfortunately not that easy to find - but should be obtainable in any decent post-secondary institution library.)
The Energy Bubble co-authored by Stewart Udall.
-in 1974.
Yep, a well-written response to the first energy crisis.
Udall moved within inner circles during the Kennedy and Johnson administrations.
And finally, before I sign off - back to Heineken -
I agree, that rich greedy parents that prop up the system that serves their selfish interests...can shoulder some of the blame.
(the vast majority of parents out there are so wired to the treadmill, they haven't got time or energy to look past the mortgage payment and this week's grocery bill.)
The school system? In truth - that should be an entirely hot new topic all in itself!
(I mean, what do they teach, really? And why? And serving whose interests?)
The electorate? Aw shucks. Be it red or blue (Rep/Dem or Tory/Lib) it's all the same flamin' lame shame game.
Political leadership - takes us back to a public will firing a political will.
We're constantly told what can't work, what can't change, and supposedly why - (until the horse escapes the barn) but really, drive thru any strip mall sprawl of your choice and ponder who really owns America.
You know those "adopt-a-highway" signs?
How about "adopt-a-Constitution"?
Can someone somewhere buy the very air you breathe?
"We're working on it!"
All I can tell kids today is, they're in for one helluva adventure!