by mgibbons19 » Sun 18 Jan 2009, 23:03:46
This is a much more complicated question than it would seem many of the posters make it out to be.
It would seem to be a huge distance between "I'm proud of my country" and "My country's best" nationalism.
I love and am proud of my wife and what she does, but in truth she's just an average woman. I'm proud of some of the things I've done, but i'm just an average man. I love my children, and think they're brilliant, just like every other guy. But they're mine. And I'll fight to the death for them.
It is difficult not to be disgusted by some of (much) of our history and what's going on now. I'l start that list. Jim Crow, lynching, slavery, native genocide so we could have their land, wounded knee (one and two), COINTELPRO, waterboarding, Vietnam, Iraq, no bid contracts to the VP's company.
But the US is not Haliburton and Cheney to me. The US is reuben sandwiches from omaha and philly cheesteaks. It's summer days at lake michigan, sailing on lake superior and the chippewa and whites getting along (sometimes better than others) up there. It's the no nonsense pragmatism of the midwest, the uptight bluster of the northeast, georgia (just the whole damn thing on its own), miners in the appalachians, farmers in the plains. The good and the bad of car culture - everything from fatasses in drive-thrus to the shelby cobra. It's the 40 year old pothead who owns a bikeshop I rode with today. The wives working the chicken factory for health insurance. their husbands trying to make a business out of a pickup, a handful of tools, and gumption. taxidrivers, fishermen, roughnecks, ed abbey and wendell berry and hemingway
This place is like our own kids. Even if they're ugly and wierd and do stupid things, you still love them, and try to steer them in the best direction. Not the least of which because any place else on earth, you'll always be an outsider expat.
Its a cop out just to hate it. Although that's easy to understand. But to love it warts and all, and try to help it reach its potential is ... well, a little more sophisticated.