Wow, not a question I would expect from one of our sharpest analysts, just because I haven't seen him go in for this kind of speculation before.
It is hard enough to figure out one's own moral dilemmas, and essentially impossible to figure out another's, especially from a distance.
Though I am generally kind to my fellow humans, perhaps out of habit, I have come to the conclusion that deep morality has little to do with how you treat other humans and more with how humans as a whole are treating the rest of life, which isn't very well.
Thriving by itself seems morally neutral: like throwing a punch, morality only comes in when you consider where it lands, who it impacts. As has been said, most of us materially thriving, or even just getting by are collectively doing irreparable and permanent harm to the living systems of the earth.
As mmasters noted, there are many ways to "thrive" that do not involve the consumption of mass quantities.
Near the beginning of the thread, people were falling all over each other to give the super-rich credit for their philanthropy. Many studies have shown that, in spite of well a few publicized exceptions, the richest as a class give the smallest percentage of their income to any kind of charity, and mostly they give to institutions that mostly benefit themselves--yachting clubs, exclusive schools, high-brow culture... A good book on this from a few years back was called (I believe) "Charity Begins At Home." The next-to-lowest classes, on the other hand, tend to give the highest percentage of their incomes to charities of various sorts.
Anyway, dante, whatever your final self evaluation, I do recommend adopting a mini-me. They are so cute and cuddly!
