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Unread postby jasonraymondson » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 03:28:55

I am currently ill-prepared. I have several talents and skills that should benefit me, but I know I am lacking in a lot of areas, I am wondering how everybody else feels and how much further they need to go to be completely prepared.


About me

    Can operate and maintain virtually every type of firearm.
    Demolitions and tactical experience.
    I can make over 40 different types of incindeary and explosive devices..
    Electronics Know How..
    Experienced carpenter, plumber, and electrician
    .
    Decent physical condition, but poor vision without glasses.

Thinks I want to learn.

    Gardening.
    Solar Cell tech.

Thinks I need

    Supplies, food (freeze dried foods, canned food, more guns).
    Water Storage System.
    Proper Land, with house that can function off the grid.
    Shortwave Radio(marconi here I come).
    Power storage system.


I am not sure what I am forgetting about, and if you all want to contribute that is great, I am always interested in learning more. Also I like to hear stories about where you ran into trouble and how you overcame those problems.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby patience » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 09:52:39

It's a good idea for us all to do a self-audit, I think. I tend to get bogged down in details, and can miss some of the big picture, despite many years trying to gain self reliance. A few minutes thought on this shows that while our extended family is far ahead of the masses, there are obvious shortfalls, too. One thing that we need to work on is cross-training of skills, to avoid too much dependence on one individual, leaving several people vulnerable should we lose one to accident, or whatever.

I'm a retired mechanical engineer with a repair shop business, and can claim a lot of skills, from minor foraging, horse farming, gardening, carpentry, forestry, logging, metal work from blacksmithing to current machining practice, leather work, electrical/PV, plumbing, hydraulics, primitive toolmaking, first aid, some herbal knowledge, built (the hard way) some blackpowder arms, and can cook well enough to stay alive. There's more, but my point is that with all that, I am short of what is needed.

One daughter has a chemistry degree, deep knowledge of herbal medicine, gardening without machines or chemicals, horses and harness, metal work, and wants to learn blacksmithing. The younger daughter is an electrical engineer, can do some mechanic work, and shares a lot of her sister's farm knowledge. My wife is an accountant for our business, has nurses training, sews well, cans food, bakes our bread, and sees after our nutrition.

My son in law does wrought iron for a living, and just built them a windmill generator. He has built a super efficient home in the woods and will dig a pond, clear garden space this year, and add PV solar to their DC only home.

Our locations were chosen with PO in mind.

That's all cool, but we all need water storage, more food storage, more medical supplies, and have no one with enough tillable ground to feed us all. We rely on trading our skills to close friends and neighbors for staple foods. It would be nice to have enough land for a couple horses. We don't have water wells, but rely on cisterns.

The key to the matter is to KEEP THINKING, IMHO.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby patience » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 09:57:44

I think it was Mel Tappan who asked a cogent question, "How many gunfights do you think you can survive?", pointing to the need to avoid trouble. The best fight is the one that did not happen. Like nuclear war, the only defense to major trouble is a lot of distance from it.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 10:08:11

I'm getting prepared for the time when I'll need the "big dummy" with the stokemonkey and park the auto mostly.

I'm thinking I'll have about $4,000 into one.

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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby jlw61 » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 10:31:44

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('patience', 'I') think it was Mel Tappan who asked a cogent question, "How many gunfights do you think you can survive?", pointing to the need to avoid trouble. The best fight is the one that did not happen. Like nuclear war, the only defense to major trouble is a lot of distance from it.


Words to quite literally live by. During a hard crash, the person with mobility, IMHO, will probably fair better than a hardened target set for siege. The latter bringing lots of unwanted attention and focusing the efforts of the zombie hordes.

Myself, I have training in several crafts, know how to wire a house, and have slight above-average mechanical abilities. On a scale of 1 to 10, with 1 being the soft-landing with oil replaced with an environmentally sound liquid and 10 being "Beyond the Thunderdome" then my preps will take me to about a 4. I have food and ammo but I still do not own my house outright. I have a close-by and distant location for plans B & C. Plan D (semi-wilderness) is possible here in the south, but would be expected to last only a short time.

I'm learning about gardening with a small home-made greenhouse and containers for my first stab. I've got the book Square Foot Gardening and will be buying a few seed saving books. I've got a couple of good hand tools. This year is for experimentation, next year it's for real.

I have a .22 LR 10/22 Ruger and I need a .223 or larger caliber rifle. I am torn on whether to supplement my trusty six-shooter with a semi-auto. I certainly will do everything I can not to get into a shooting war, but if I can't help it, I need to know I have a chance of getting out of it alive. For the latter, I'm working on getting to know my neighbors to find out who actually owns the proper hardware, but so far I'm finding Lambs-of-God. 8O

I'm an IT worker who has a job that will probably take me to the 3rd or 4th wave of lay-offs in the industry, but no farther. My wife has a job that will last as long as there is a government funded social services program which I would expect to last a year or two longer than my IT job. We've been changing our lives so that we should soon be able to live off of just one income.

We live in the south near a river, we're both PO aware and talk about preps and ideas from time to time. She understands what the future could hold and we're both working towards a common goal. So in that respect, maybe we'll be able to handle a 6 on the Landing Scale.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby Lumpy » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 12:01:24

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jasonraymondson', 'I') am currently ill-prepared. I have several talents and skills that should benefit me, but I know I am lacking in a lot of areas, I am wondering how everybody else feels and how much further they need to go to be completely prepared.


Jason - First I want to say something directly to you. Several weeks ago I put you on "ignore". I can't even remember what it was about, but you were one of only three people on that list for me -- so you must have posted something that really got me p.o'ed (no pun intended.)

However, when I say the title of this thread, and saw patience's response, I unignored you, because this seemed like an important question, and I wanted to be able to read what you had started here.

This IS an important question, and I thank you for asking it ... it is especially timely in my life right now.

Now ... on to my response.

Patience said something that really hit home: the importance of not being too dependent on one person in the group. That is the scariest thing for me right now, because I am the only person bringing in money. My husband quit his job, and is working hard to get our farm place into sustainability -- but we were "book smart"and "experience challenged" when we moved out here almost 3 years ago. We really had no firm idea as to how much everything was going to cost, and how much there was to be done.

Example: There was this lovely tall plant with lacey leaves growing all over the place -- maybe 4.5 - 5 of the 7.5 acres covered with it. The seller didn't bother to tell us, nor did the real estate agent (who is country born and bred) that it is poison hemlock. The amount of time, energy, and money that has gone into just beating that noxious weed into submission has been incredible.

As I have mentioned before, the land here had been neglected for many years. So there was/is much to be done. We are blessed to have a year round big creek that borders the property, and year round small spring-fed creek that runs through the property (spring is not on our property) and our own artesian well. The land is very fertile, but with areas that are rock, rock, rock -- from some time in the distant past when the path of the big creek was different. Also, the most fertile (organic content high) part of the land is also the most clay-heavy. So there is much amendment to be done as we go along.

Anyway, that gives you just a brief (doesn't look brief, does it? ;-) ) idea of some of the stuff we have been up against thus far. Stuff we weren't really fully prepared for beyond an "intellectual level" -- and some of which we didn't even know about. Thus my husband quit his job to work this place full time. And thus we are in the unenviable position of knowing that if I got in a car wreck tomorrow and broke my leg and couldn't work for a month, we would be in trouble, financially. We have poured basically all our reserve funds into this place, trying to get it ready as fast as possible.

On the other hand, here is what we have going for us:
1. We are in our 50's and understand very, very well what is needed - preparation wise.
2. I practice medicine, and that's obviously going to be a skill that will go on being needed. (On the minus side, my speciality is now psychiatry, so I HAVE to find the time to continue working, while completing a 2nd speciality in family practice -- which will be the mandatory branch of medicine in the future. Not that I can't deliver babies, etc, now ... but I need more training/experience in family practice.)
3. My husband is excellent at envisioning functional designs -- e.g. our self-built irrigation system for our orchard. Would have cost us thousands to have it put it .... we built is for a couple of hundred.
4. We own a lot of guns - not enough - but a lot.
5. We gave up TV when we moved to the farm - and don't miss it at all. We are non-mainstream consumers ... so not having a mall to go to is no big deal to us!
6. Two of our four kids are grown men - one married with a 4 year old and a 2 year old. The other still unattached. The married one can do all kinds of building work - carpentry, painting, dry wall, etc. He is used to running crews of up to 90 guys in the commercial painting business. He is a very hard worker - and meticulous. The unmarried one works with his brother, but is a trained motorcycle mechanic, and one of those people who can fix anything mechanical. The best part (putting a positive spin on it) is that neither of them is getting steady work these days, and they are all (including wife of eldest) increasingly thankful that we were led to buy this farm - because they recognize where the world is headed. In fact, in 6 weeks we have a sit down meeting planned - to decide how we are going to make it all happen. Who is going to sleep where (we are going to have to find a cheap travel trailer to accomodate the younger son) until we have found the money and time to build a small extension on to the house (attached by a breezeway to the "big house", to meet county regulations regarding only one dwelling on the property), where my husband and I will live.
7. When those guys get down here, there will be three men to work on projects here, plus the two sons to find work for money off the farm insofar as possible.

How are we UNPREPARED:
1. Not enough food stored yet.
2. Not enough guns/ammo yet.
3. Not enough medical supplies stored yet.
4. Concerns regarding medications that my husband and I take, and that our eldest son must have.
5. Husband and I need to get prescription glasses updated, and a 2nd pair made for each of us.
6. Need more blankets
7. Cold room not built yet -- in fact, many projects not complete yet. (It will be great to have the other two men here.)

Also, and perhaps of greatest importance, I don't think any of us in the family are yet psychologically/emotionally prepared for three generations under one roof. There are bound to be some hard times with all the strong personalities and limited space in the beginning. (They have lived with us for up to a month before ... and it wasn't easy.)

There are a lot of things we have to "hash out". Who is in charge of what? And especially among the men, there is bound to be jockying for position - pecking order - wolf pack stuff. You know what I mean.

(I should mention that my husband is their step-dad -- and we have only been married four years, so the sons (in their 30's) are not accustomed to automatically acquiesing to his decisions as the "father-person".)

They are going to have a problem giving up TV sports. We don't smoke, and don't want it around us. The sons both smoke. That's going to be an issue. Stuff like that.

Daughter (in-law) is ready to take over cleaning and upkeep of the house. (She is a stay at home Mom now.) Cooking duties will be shared.

I will continue to practice medicine.

We plan to home-school the grandkids (these two plus any more that come along when second son gets married) as a family.

So we have this is the best of scenarios (we have land, house, water, orchard, garden, chickens, pigs, horses, and family) -- and we have a difficult scenario with working out the intra-family stuff.

So how prepared are we? Well, we have the raw material. But now we have to bring it together in a "workable/working format". At least we all in the family recognize/know that this is the ONLY way everyone is going to make it -- pulling together.

Wish us luck -- please pray for us, all of you who pray -- and please, provide any thought about how we might go about approaching this "bringing together" in the best way.

Lumpy

PS - Youngest kid working toward nursing degree. He will come back and forth to the farm over the years, we expect, but we don't think he will settle here. He should always have work, though, with medical background. Next to youngest kid (girl) married into family with money. She and husband live in city with their one preschooler -- and are much more connected to husband's family. So we are anticipating they will try to find a way to make it by banding together with his big family.
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Re: How prepared are you?

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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 12:50:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jasonraymondson', 'I') am currently ill-prepared. I have several talents and skills that should benefit me, but I know I am lacking in a lot of areas, I am wondering how everybody else feels and how much further they need to go to be completely prepared.


Jason - First I want to say something directly to you. Several weeks ago I put you on "ignore". I can't even remember what it was about, but you were one of only three people on that list for me -- so you must have posted something that really got me p.o'ed (no pun intended.)

However, when I say the title of this thread, and saw patience's response, I unignored you, because this seemed like an important question, and I wanted to be able to read what you had started here.

This IS an important question, and I thank you for asking it ... it is especially timely in my life right now.

Now ... on to my response.

Patience said something that really hit home: the importance of not being too dependent on one person in the group. That is the scariest thing for me right now, because I am the only person bringing in money. My husband quit his job, and is working hard to get our farm place into sustainability -- but we were "book smart"and "experience challenged" when we moved out here almost 3 years ago. We really had no firm idea as to how much everything was going to cost, and how much there was to be done.

Example: There was this lovely tall plant with lacey leaves growing all over the place -- maybe 4.5 - 5 of the 7.5 acres covered with it. The seller didn't bother to tell us, nor did the real estate agent (who is country born and bred) that it is poison hemlock. The amount of time, energy, and money that has gone into just beating that noxious weed into submission has been incredible.

As I have mentioned before, the land here had been neglected for many years. So there was/is much to be done. We are blessed to have a year round big creek that borders the property, and year round small spring-fed creek that runs through the property (spring is not on our property) and our own artesian well. The land is very fertile, but with areas that are rock, rock, rock -- from some time in the distant past when the path of the big creek was different. Also, the most fertile (organic content high) part of the land is also the most clay-heavy. So there is much amendment to be done as we go along.

Anyway, that gives you just a brief (doesn't look brief, does it? ;-) ) idea of some of the stuff we have been up against thus far. Stuff we weren't really fully prepared for beyond an "intellectual level" -- and some of which we didn't even know about. Thus my husband quit his job to work this place full time. And thus we are in the unenviable position of knowing that if I got in a car wreck tomorrow and broke my leg and couldn't work for a month, we would be in trouble, financially. We have poured basically all our reserve funds into this place, trying to get it ready as fast as possible.

On the other hand, here is what we have going for us:
1. We are in our 50's and understand very, very well what is needed - preparation wise.
2. I practice medicine, and that's obviously going to be a skill that will go on being needed. (On the minus side, my speciality is now psychiatry, so I HAVE to find the time to continue working, while completing a 2nd speciality in family practice -- which will be the mandatory branch of medicine in the future. Not that I can't deliver babies, etc, now ... but I need more training/experience in family practice.)
3. My husband is excellent at envisioning functional designs -- e.g. our self-built irrigation system for our orchard. Would have cost us thousands to have it put it .... we built is for a couple of hundred.
4. We own a lot of guns - not enough - but a lot.
5. We gave up TV when we moved to the farm - and don't miss it at all. We are non-mainstream consumers ... so not having a mall to go to is no big deal to us!
6. Two of our four kids are grown men - one married with a 4 year old and a 2 year old. The other still unattached. The married one can do all kinds of building work - carpentry, painting, dry wall, etc. He is used to running crews of up to 90 guys in the commercial painting business. He is a very hard worker - and meticulous. The unmarried one works with his brother, but is a trained motorcycle mechanic, and one of those people who can fix anything mechanical. The best part (putting a positive spin on it) is that neither of them is getting steady work these days, and they are all (including wife of eldest) increasingly thankful that we were led to buy this farm - because they recognize where the world is headed. In fact, in 6 weeks we have a sit down meeting planned - to decide how we are going to make it all happen. Who is going to sleep where (we are going to have to find a cheap travel trailer to accomodate the younger son) until we have found the money and time to build a small extension on to the house (attached by a breezeway to the "big house", to meet county regulations regarding only one dwelling on the property), where my husband and I will live.
7. When those guys get down here, there will be three men to work on projects here, plus the two sons to find work for money off the farm insofar as possible.

How are we UNPREPARED:
1. Not enough food stored yet.
2. Not enough guns/ammo yet.
3. Not enough medical supplies stored yet.
4. Concerns regarding medications that my husband and I take, and that our eldest son must have.
5. Husband and I need to get prescription glasses updated, and a 2nd pair made for each of us.
6. Need more blankets
7. Cold room not built yet -- in fact, many projects not complete yet. (It will be great to have the other two men here.)

Also, and perhaps of greatest importance, I don't think any of us in the family are yet psychologically/emotionally prepared for three generations under one roof. There are bound to be some hard times with all the strong personalities and limited space in the beginning. (They have lived with us for up to a month before ... and it wasn't easy.)

There are a lot of things we have to "hash out". Who is in charge of what? And especially among the men, there is bound to be jockying for position - pecking order - wolf pack stuff. You know what I mean.

(I should mention that my husband is their step-dad -- and we have only been married four years, so the sons (in their 30's) are not accustomed to automatically acquiesing to his decisions as the "father-person".)

They are going to have a problem giving up TV sports. We don't smoke, and don't want it around us. The sons both smoke. That's going to be an issue. Stuff like that.

Daughter (in-law) is ready to take over cleaning and upkeep of the house. (She is a stay at home Mom now.) Cooking duties will be shared.

I will continue to practice medicine.

We plan to home-school the grandkids (these two plus any more that come along when second son gets married) as a family.

So we have this is the best of scenarios (we have land, house, water, orchard, garden, chickens, pigs, horses, and family) -- and we have a difficult scenario with working out the intra-family stuff.

So how prepared are we? Well, we have the raw material. But now we have to bring it together in a "workable/working format". At least we all in the family recognize/know that this is the ONLY way everyone is going to make it -- pulling together.

Wish us luck -- please pray for us, all of you who pray -- and please, provide any thought about how we might go about approaching this "bringing together" in the best way.

Lumpy

PS - Youngest kid working toward nursing degree. He will come back and forth to the farm over the years, we expect, but we don't think he will settle here. He should always have work, though, with medical background. Next to youngest kid (girl) married into family with money. She and husband live in city with their one preschooler -- and are much more connected to husband's family. So we are anticipating they will try to find a way to make it by banding together with his big family.


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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby Lumpy » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 13:24:55

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'I')'m sure Jayson will look at your post and just get pissed off!


Oh, well - his choice. I still thank him for starting this thread.

Whether anyone responds to me or not, I discovered this was some stuff I needed to write. So Jayson gave me the forum for that.

So I do thank him.

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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby RedStateGreen » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 13:33:47

This is a good thread. :)

I'm a former family doctor (out of practice eight years now) with some knowledge of alternative/herbal medicine. I delivered a thousand babies or so in my time, and I can do all sorts of minor surgery and some major if I had to. I probably should have become a surgeon; I'm not a people person, which is one of the reasons I left practice.

I've been an organic gardener close to twenty years, and I'm learning about permaculture. I've provided our family's entire fruit and vegetable supply in the past, but we moved a little over two years ago to a bare grass lot, so I had to start over.

I was disabled for a long time, and my physical condition isn't the best, but it's coming back with forcing myself to work outside. My vision isn't that great (hello 40's), but I can make do without glasses if I had to.

I'm sort of obsessive about food, so I have a lot of freeze-dried and canned/dry/frozen stored (enough for at least three months), and if this summer does well, I can start in with the home-canning. I have a solar oven, and know how to make a rocket stove out of bricks. I'm a fairly decent cook, and know how to make jams/jellies.

I also have been a backpacker since college, so I know how to build a fire, find water, set up shelter, etc. I'm comfortable living outside if I have to.

I've been collecting alternative fire-starting, power-generating, and lighting items. It's amazing how many different ways there are to make a fire.

We also just got the angora rabbits, so I have a fur/meat/skin option there. I know how to slaughter an animal, and I wouldn't have qualms about doing it. (I'm serious. It's not unlike doing surgery, except for the patient's dead.)

I already know how to sew (I made my wedding dress and did theater costuming for years) and crochet, and I'm learning to spin and knit. I also took a class in foraging.

I have a small rainwater collection system, about 1600 gallons total between that, a small pond in front, and water in bottles in the storm room.

My family is my husband (who's the breadwinner at a job that'll be around as long as the government is, but who's in terrible shape) and three teenagers, who are at varying degrees of helpfulness/on-board-ness. My husband has a lot of woodworking and stonework knowledge. The kids will be okay if things go south, but they don't have much in the way of skills or desire to obtain them right now. Our extended family is on both coasts.

I've been working on getting to know people in the local food system, the local fiber artists, and the local homesteaders. They have a ton of skills and knowledge.

Things I'd like to/plan to learn/do:

I've never even touched a gun in my life. I can see after reading on here that one would be useful for hunting, and my kids are interested in learning to shoot.

Expand the rainwater system. I have the plans for this in my head, just haven't gotten to building it yet. I plan to build a large wooden tank around the side of the house, with overflow going to a smaller barrel, then the overflow from that going to feed a larger pond in the very back of the property, which will have catfish. :)

Persuade my husband somehow to get a solar system on the roof or some other form of alternate energy/heating/cooling. He doesn't seem too interested in it.

I need to get a dehydrator. I also need to learn to use my pressure canner.

Get in better shape.

I'm planning on breeding the bunnies after we get back from vacation in July, assuming we don't get stuck in CA while there from some inane airline glitch, or the world doesn't blow up before that.

I've looked at getting involved with the SCA, both as networking and to learn new skills. It looks like it might be fun, although my extra time is pretty scanty at present.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby vision-master » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 13:34:09

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'I')'m sure Jayson will look at your post and just get pissed off!


Oh, well - his choice. I still thank him for starting this thread.

Whether anyone responds to me or not, I discovered this was some stuff I needed to write. So Jayson gave me the forum for that.

So I do thank him.

Lumpy


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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby patience » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 13:49:23

Lumpy,
You brought up a crucial point, the psychology of the interdependent group. From what I've observed, it requires strong external socializing and common-cause to get each to do the required compromising and bonding. The closest example I can think of is the Amish communities around us, who have religion and cradle-to-grave socializing (schools, families, shared farm work, interdependent needs) to effect that cohesiveness. You must provide every element possible, or it will come apart. Well-defined roles for each member are absolutely necessary for healthy self esteem. Define these well in advance and practice them. Prevents feelings of imposition, and allows people to feel good about what they give.

One important factor is the need for individual development of self. Our situation is helped by having individual homesteads, with ours being the nearest to conventional, and the daughter and son in law's being the largest and most remote, a "bug-out" position, if needed. And this younger couple are 40 years old, and have made it on their own for long enough to feel their sense of self. Both are outspoken about their feelings, and easy to deal with.

Note that I said something about COMPROMISE. A number of generations living together has it's own more or less tribal psychology, which requires some set of established social norms that are quite different from what we are used to. I saw the tail end of that as a way of life with my grandparents generations, ca., 1950's. Grandparents lived with son's and their offspring, of economic necessity that begat lifelong resentments, shaping personalities, not always for the best. Compromises were what saved the day. You may find that something like enduring a certain amount of smoking, or the refusal to, being a serious problem. My grandfather moved in with his daughter when he was old, and she refused to let him smoke in the house. He quietly endured that for one winter, then come spring, she came home from shopping one day to find him gone, moved back to his own place in an afternoon, where he stayed until he died.

Think hard about what is really important to you, and to others. Things become issues because someone CHOSE to make them issues. Make your choices, and don't be afraid to talk about it, and change your mind if necessary. EVERYBODY HAS TO BE SINGING OUT OF THE SAME HYMNBOOK!

With regard to guns, just a few comments and I'll leave that alone. I read somewhere to "beware of anybody who just has one gun, 'cause he prob'ly knows how to use it REAL good." How many can you use at one time? How many can you carry? What good is it if it ain't there when you need it?

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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby aardvarktonsil » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 14:33:19

It is not that important how well prepared you are, because most will be removed by random desease process and pandemics. If you make it through that, you should be ok if you have shelter and food access, and full micron air filters for 6 months and you live west of the cities.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby Lumpy » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 14:33:49

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'I')'m sure Jayson will look at your post and just get pissed off!


Oh, well - his choice. I still thank him for starting this thread.

Whether anyone responds to me or not, I discovered this was some stuff I needed to write. So Jayson gave me the forum for that.

So I do thank him.

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I'm pissed too! :razz:


Oh, yeah -- at me? Well, I can't remember how I pissed you off - but if it was something for which I should apologize, I hereby official do so.

I'm not a grudge bearer - so I really can't remember what I might have done to offend you.

Anyway - there you have it.

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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby jasonraymondson » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 14:34:11

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('vision-master', 'I')'m sure Jayson will look at your post and just get pissed off!


Oh, well - his choice. I still thank him for starting this thread.

Whether anyone responds to me or not, I discovered this was some stuff I needed to write. So Jayson gave me the forum for that.

So I do thank him.

Lumpy



Now I would get pissed off??? I never get angry, not my style.

But, I do thank you for taking the time to share your struggles with preparations and helping to realize how truely unprepared I am ..

DAMN YOU hehehe :lol:
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby bodigami » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 15:07:24

Basically my preparations can be resumed on:

> excelent mental preparation
> working on improving physical preparation... I'm somewhat above "recommended weight" and losing it with changes on eating. But what is better: "recommended weight" or having a bit of "energy reserves"?
> skills on gardening and computing (...if the shit isn't that big)
> BUT I've not hoarded food, water, weapons, ...
> AND will prefer to have wood and metal working skills.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jasonraymondson', '(')...)
Decent physical condition, but poor vision without glasses.
(...)


Same here. I'm thinking of paying for someone to operate my eyes with laser instead of getting Wii + games + iPhone + wireless router. It is not that expensive, and I have already 1/7 of the total cost. Better get one of this operations before the grid falls.
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby bodigami » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 15:29:25

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '(')...)
So we have this is the best of scenarios (we have land, house, water, orchard, garden, chickens, pigs, horses, and family) -- and we have a difficult scenario with working out the intra-family stuff.

So how prepared are we? Well, we have the raw material. But now we have to bring it together in a "workable/working format". At least we all in the family recognize/know that this is the ONLY way everyone is going to make it -- pulling together.

Wish us luck -- please pray for us, all of you who pray -- and please, provide any thought about how we might go about approaching this "bringing together" in the best way.
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I pray to and expect favors of no one. But I can make some suggestions of "bringing together". There's a saying that can be translated as "don't bring dirty towels to the home"; I don't know if it makes sense to someone that haven't heard it before. But I disagree with it. This saying is basically telling that for a family to be harmonious and functional, the problems from the "exterior" has to be forgoten inside the home.

Most of the problems between humans is because of whining of not having or being something. Some humans expect too much of others but don't work on bringing harmony and serenity to their own minds. Basically what I'm trying to say is this: if the mind of 1 human is not harmonious and he/she relates to others, the relationship will not be harmonious. Multiply this by all the humans on a group, like a family, and you have quite a lot of work to do. But it should start on the inside, there has to be an intentionality to improve mind and spirit.

...I hope this helps a bit :)
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Re: How prepared are you?

Unread postby EnergyUnlimited » Sun 20 Apr 2008, 16:46:29

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lumpy', '
')How are we UNPREPARED:
1. Not enough food stored yet.

How much do you think is enough?
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '2'). Not enough guns/ammo yet.

At best you can handle 2 handguns or 1 shotgun/automatic weapon at any given time.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '3'). Not enough medical supplies stored yet.

Being a doctor you could write prescription to yourself and get medicines you need.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '4'). Concerns regarding medications that my husband and I take, and that our eldest son must have.

If you expect the worst, you really need lifelong supply.
Good idea is to purchase these from fine chemical supplier.
You will often save 99% of money this way.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '5'). Husband and I need to get prescription glasses updated, and a 2nd pair made for each of us.
Cheap and trivial.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '6'). Need more blankets
As above.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '7'). Cold room not built yet -- in fact, many projects not complete yet. (It will be great to have the other two men here.)
Cold room is of no use if you face patchy electricity supply.
You may consider cellar.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'A')lso, and perhaps of greatest importance, I don't think any of us in the family are yet psychologically/emotionally prepared for three generations under one roof. There are bound to be some hard times with all the strong personalities and limited space in the beginning. (They have lived with us for up to a month before ... and it wasn't easy.)
You are probably overestimating this problem.
I think, your family will cooperate if under severe stress.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', '(')I should mention that my husband is their step-dad -- and we have only been married four years, so the sons (in their 30's) are not accustomed to automatically acquiesing to his decisions as the "father-person".)
That might be a very bad news indeed.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')hey are going to have a problem giving up TV sports. We don't smoke, and don't want it around us. The sons both smoke. That's going to be an issue. Stuff like that.
I don't think there will be much sport in TV after TEOTWAWKI.
Neither your son will be in position to buy cigarettes at will, albeit he may manage to get few packets a month.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'D')aughter (in-law) is ready to take over cleaning and upkeep of the house. (She is a stay at home Mom now.) Cooking duties will be shared.
She will end up to be most useful person in your household. :-D
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