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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby Aaron » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 12:14:49

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jupiters_release', ' ')Funny you use the word violence with its negative moral connotation

vi‧o‧lence–noun
1. swift and intense force: the violence of a storm.
2. rough or injurious physical force, action, or treatment: to die by violence.

There are more, but definitions 1 and 2 are really what we're talking about here. I think it is a reflection of the pathology of our society that swift, intense, rough, or injurious force has become so demonized. The only time that those sorts of actions are at all permisible in our society is when it is the government doing them to us. Every time two drunks get in a bar fight, the rest of us look on in horror and bleat for the swat team to restore order. I personally believe that wusification is every bit as detrimental to us as homogenization and stupidification are. Where have all the rough men (and women) gone?


Great Thread.

But I disagree with the above quote.

We are right here.

But instead of physical violence like a bar fight, we have transferred our modern violence into institutional violence.

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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby NEOPO » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 12:34:44

Its like a bar fight as no one knows who started it and no one really cares.
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Hey man whats up with the "vampire" link.
Someone once called me a "motherfucker" for doing that...heheh

the following "vampire" link represents how the word "sissified" makes me feel.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InJPVUtVA74

I think I like vampire links -that mixes well - 1,2,3 go!!!
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby lorenzo » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 14:42:35

The hypothesis that early man and cultures were violent is probably wrong. Most of the evidence points to the contrary. Violence was probably invented very recently when societies organised into sedentary, segmentary wholes under the leadership of despots who used the logic of monotheism, exclusion, alterity and subjection to engineer and manage society. From this logic of alterity and subjection stems violence (this is basically Rene Girard's anthropology and history of violence)

The myth of the violent primitive hunter is a pure myth and has nothing to do with reality. (Hunting is a very cerebral, intellectual, anti-violent activity, for nerds with glasses only.)

I agree with Aaron:
1. first there was the noble savage who never used violence (only ritualised or mock 'violence' just for fun, he had no clue of the concept of violence as we know it) - more and more research is confirming this hypothesis
2. then the State and Empire came, which invented violence and gender roles and the logic of alterity
3. then capitalism and modernity came which institutionalised violence on the one hand, and used it on a planetary and industrial scale on the other

To use the example of the Jew:
1. primitive jews were no Jews, they were kind idyllic groups
2. when Judaism was invented, it resulted in a violent imperialist text about monotheism, with violent aspirations; from then on, Jewish societies became ordened, segmentarised, exclusivist, with laws on the place of women and on punishment, etc...; during this era the Jew himself also experienced Pharaonic (imperial) violence, Roman (imperial) violence, Christian (imperial) violence; the logic of alterity and empire (violence proper)
3. in the era of modernity and capitalism, the Jew didn't simply experience violence, he experienced clean, industrial elimination, carried out by bookkeepers and institutions that merely whispered and did their thing as if it were a task like any other

It's basically Deleuze's three-phased historical anthropology as he sketched it in his work on the history of capitalism.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby NEOPO » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 15:30:03

OK so how do we eliminate this horrible disease without eliminating the host as well?
Must we destroy state and empire - capitolism and modernity?

By hunting you surely mean stalking and killing something that actually has a chance of hurting and/or killing you - no?
doves with a shotgun just dont seem the same ;-)
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby jupiters_release » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 15:52:23

All this existentialistic talk is embarrassing, keep the energy moving, doesn't have to be a martial art, pick up a basketball, join a volleyball team, marathon, whatever, there's countless ways to live physically well in our soon to be over civilization.

I do notice the senior and master black belts at my dojo are 'sensitive' but they have both the power and ability to kill the average person.

My grandmaster's motto is:

Technique before strength,
Spirit before technique.

"Brutal violence" has nothing to do with a healthy life, and most of the romanticizing is based on historical fiction. We don't need random violence, we need culture, trust.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby Ayoob » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 17:15:43

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jupiters_release', 'A')ll this existentialistic talk is embarrassing, keep the energy moving, doesn't have to be a martial art, pick up a basketball, join a volleyball team, marathon, whatever, there's countless ways to live physically well in our soon to be over civilization.

I do notice the senior and master black belts at my dojo are 'sensitive' but they have both the power and ability to kill the average person.

My grandmaster's motto is:

Technique before strength,
Spirit before technique.

"Brutal violence" has nothing to do with a healthy life, and most of the romanticizing is based on historical fiction. We don't need random violence, we need culture, trust.


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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 17:36:40

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jupiters_release', '"')Brutal violence" has nothing to do with a healthy life,
Ever seen a wolf kill a deer? Brutal violence has everything to do with healthy life.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby WildRose » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 18:32:10

I've observed a cultural shift on the playgrounds over the past 15 or 20 years as a volunteer for the public school system. There is almost zero tolerance for rough play - no wrestling, no sliding down a hill in the snow and bumping into anyone else, no pretending to do a karate kick. The kids even have to be careful not to "tag" someone else too roughly.

I've watched lots of kids play at my house over the years and I know that boys, especially, have a need for this rough play. Of course, as a parent I don't like to see anyone really get hurt, but I think the odd bump while playing has to be expected. These same kids, though they enjoy wrestling and playing football and inventing wild games in the bushes, are also content to watch a good drama on TV or spend an hour drawing.

Back to the schoolyard. It used to be (maybe 50 years ago?) that if you had a disagreement with someone at school you might push each other around a bit, or in high school you might throw a couple of punches after class. Now, kids with disagreements draw knives and even guns to settle their disputes. Many of them carry a knife at all times, for "safety" purposes.

I don't know if a correlation could be drawn between the intolerance to any form of violence (shoving, wrestling) on the playground and the angry, deadly violence that we see now, but I just wonder if there is one.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby holmes » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 18:41:39

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', 'M')en will become increasingly "sissified" in the future and I'm all for it. Girly men are better lovers.

its got to be 50/50
Like last night I cried like a little boy when I watched Walk the Line. I cry when I watch tragic dramas and romance stuff. something about it just makes me let loose. One reason why I cant go to the movies much. Its embarrassing. But when the lady sees me crying she gives herself to me immediatley. and thats that. You speak the truth in that statment.
For petes sake I cried at the end of the wedding crashers. a frakin comedy. Something about true love just ruins me! : - (
However I have no problem executing someone with a .357 round to the temple. Go figure.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 18:44:27

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('WildRose', 'I')'ve observed a cultural shift on the playgrounds over the past 15 or 20 years as a volunteer for the public school system. There is almost zero tolerance for rough play - no wrestling, no sliding down a hill in the snow and bumping into anyone else, no pretending to do a karate kick. The kids even have to be careful not to "tag" someone else too roughly.

I've watched lots of kids play at my house over the years and I know that boys, especially, have a need for this rough play. Of course, as a parent I don't like to see anyone really get hurt, but I think the odd bump while playing has to be expected. These same kids, though they enjoy wrestling and playing football and inventing wild games in the bushes, are also content to watch a good drama on TV or spend an hour drawing.

I had a kid get dropped from my class today for throwing carrots at other kids during the break of an intersession class. A boy of course. I suppose it didn't help him that they came to me to ask about him, "how's he doing, what sort of behavior?" I told them the truth, he's lazy, failing the tests, does no work and cheats and lies." One of the kids asked me, "Who did you just execute?" Can't say I'm sorry he's gone. He needed the credit to graduate from high school and he was acting like a total screw up. One thing I have found, if you do the self-contained good cop, bad cop routine, the kids respect it. If you are only nice, they take advantage of you. I've seen kids give me the evil eye when I get mad and then become more motivated. It's strange. They will even say goodbye to you at the end of the day.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby rwwff » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 18:50:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jupiters_release', '"')Brutal violence" has nothing to do with a healthy life,
Ever seen a wolf kill a deer? Brutal violence has everything to do with healthy life.

Got it in one. I don't know if its a gender thing though. Maybe more one of those 20/80 80/20 distributions of behavior.
We kill, we eat, we protect, we fight, we sit around camp doing nothing in particular, we play dangerous games chunking rocks at each other with little thought to possible harm. Laying in bed for 8 months at the end of life with sustenance coming from a glucose drip, not so much.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby holmes » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 20:00:28

BRAVO Gideon! Bravo! {applause}
nice bench too.
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Re: !!

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 21:18:14

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Gideon', ' ')As politely as I can say it, what a load of hooey.

ALRIGHT!! Now we're getting somewhere! Thank you Gideon. I was afraid this thread was going to slip into oblivion without any real debate.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'F')lagrantly gay men aren't very violent - not enough testosterone.

Good theory, but doesn't pan out. The nazis tried testosterone injections to correct homosexual men. Didn't work.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'T')raditional roles haven't been "obviated", which implies that women have had no choice. They have been <b>abandoned</b>.

ob‧vi‧ate–verb to anticipate and prevent or eliminate (difficulties, disadvantages, etc.) by effective measures; render unnecessary
That's exactly what happened to women's traditional roles. You don't need to card and weave wool to sew your families clothes when you can get an outfit from Walmart for $30. You don't need to spend endless hours growing and storing food when you can buy it all winter from Albertsons. Refrigerators, washing machines, dishwashers, these things all obviate traditional women's tasks. We tried a bunch of make-work schemes back in the 1950's, but they were doomed to failure.
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Sorry to break it to you, but I don't have a sociology degree. In fact I've never taken a sociology class. My BS was in Chemistry and my doctorate is in Medicine.
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You seriously contend that male iconography hasn't changed in the last 30 years?
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'B')y the way, I can bench about 250 right now and I love working out. Does that mean that I am one of those who has, for lack of a "gender role", turned to "hyertrophizicatinazation"?Actually I would say that the fact that you are ranting and raving about this is an even better evidence that you feel insecure about your gender role.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby Kylon » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 21:30:27

Guys, don't feed the Neofeminist Troll.
If you just ignore her she will:
A) stop posting on this topic.
B) get a bunch of her neofeminist women together and talk about how men are the cause of all the problems in the world, and that even peak oil, was in reality caused by men (rather than the fact that humans consume resources to survive).

Either way, if A occurs, Then the thread will die, problem solved.

if B occurs, We don't have to read the thread (I know I only read a very small part, the intro and the end), but we will be able to know exactly whose a man hater on the board, and we can just hit the ignore on them.
Either way, we win.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby smallpoxgirl » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 21:51:31

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Kylon', 'G')uys, don't feed the Neofeminist Troll.

:lol: Dude, you are a moron. I defy you to site a neofemenist author that has ever proposed that men should be more violent or that women were harmed by being forced into the world of commodified work. I may be a lot of things, but I ain't a neofemenist.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby WildRose » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 22:22:58

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('WildRose', 'I')'ve observed a cultural shift on the playgrounds over the past 15 or 20 years as a volunteer for the public school system. There is almost zero tolerance for rough play - no wrestling, no sliding down a hill in the snow and bumping into anyone else, no pretending to do a karate kick. The kids even have to be careful not to "tag" someone else too roughly.

I've watched lots of kids play at my house over the years and I know that boys, especially, have a need for this rough play. Of course, as a parent I don't like to see anyone really get hurt, but I think the odd bump while playing has to be expected. These same kids, though they enjoy wrestling and playing football and inventing wild games in the bushes, are also content to watch a good drama on TV or spend an hour drawing.

I had a kid get dropped from my class today for throwing carrots at other kids during the break of an intersession class. A boy of course. I suppose it didn't help him that they came to me to ask about him, "how's he doing, what sort of behavior?" I told them the truth, he's lazy, failing the tests, does no work and cheats and lies." One of the kids asked me, "Who did you just execute?" Can't say I'm sorry he's gone. He needed the credit to graduate from high school and he was acting like a total screw up. One thing I have found, if you do the self-contained good cop, bad cop routine, the kids respect it. If you are only nice, they take advantage of you. I've seen kids give me the evil eye when I get mad and then become more motivated. It's strange. They will even say goodbye to you at the end of the day.



PMS, I agree that kids need to know where you (as a teacher, parent or supervisor) stand on issues of conduct and expectations; and yes, I have also found that they are generally more respectful towards adults who hold them accountable for their behavior.

However, I wasn't commenting on kids showing defiant behavior or acting out, but rather just the fact that the rough-housing type of play that used to be considered normal in boys is now not permitted, and maybe that's taking away from their normal development.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby Atlantean_Relic » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 22:32:27

All must be right in the world. :lol:
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby rwwff » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 22:59:59

Gideon... I think you're obsessed with T-ts. The great sages of South Park recommend moderation when worshipping before the idols of the mighty HaCha.

As to PhD.. why the hostility? People don't get PhD's to make lots of money; its a ticket to do a very particular kind of work. Its supposed to take so long and be that annoying to get, because the work that people do after getting PhD's often involves pursuing a single dumb puzzle for some horrible number of years, only to discovers its a nuthin, and have to start all over again.

And back to the thread, the initial post was not bashing men, it was lamenting the fact that acceptible avenues for average men to indulge in a bit of real violence without losing house, family, car, money, and possessions to the criminal justice system are rapidly disappearing. And that is a bad thing.

About the closest I can get to planned, legal primitive-esque violence is to take recurve bow into the woods and hunt. Its ok, but it is distinctly a ritualized, poor imitation of the more natural, essential form.
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby Venerye » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 23:22:02

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'Y')ou seriously contend that male iconography hasn't changed in the last 30 years?


Hmm, I'm not sure about this. What about the "Physical Culture Movement" of the late 19th/early 20th centuries?

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You've got to admit, some of these guys are not so far removed from The Rock...

Besides, there are plenty of male "icons" today who are considered masculine (yes by men as well as women) but do not have the extreme physique. Consider People Magazine's "Sexiest Man Alive" feature...
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Re: Gender Roles and the Civilization Process

Unread postby jupiters_release » Wed 04 Oct 2006, 23:23:42

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('smallpoxgirl', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('jupiters_release', '"')Brutal violence" has nothing to do with a healthy life,
Ever seen a wolf kill a deer? Brutal violence has everything to do with healthy life.


Right but we're talking about people and civilization, I totally agree with you though that American culture has rotted miserably in the past couple decades but there are people left that don't need a bar brawl while drinking to maintain a healthy life. :razz:
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