malignant narcissist: Dr. Sam Vaknin has a book about it titled
Malignant Self-Love which he sells on the internet but is interestingly to be found online at the Gutenberg Project.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', ' ')The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual (DSM) IV-TR uses this language to describe the malignant narcissist:
"An all-pervasive pattern of grandiosity (in fantasy or behavior), need for admiration or adulation and lack of empathy, usually beginning by early adulthood and present in various contexts."
So, what matters is that these characteristics, often found in healthy people, appear jointly and not separately or intermittently and that they are all-pervasive (invade, penetrate, and mould every aspect, nook, and cranny of the personality):
1.
That grandiose fantasies are abundantly discernible;
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That grandiose (often ridiculous) behaviors are present;
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That there is an over-riding need for admiration and adulation or attention ("narcissistic supply");
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That the person lacks empathy (regards other people as two dimensional cartoon figures and abstractions, unable to "stand in their shoes");
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That these traits and behaviors begin, at the latest, in early adolescence;
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That the narcissistic behaviors pervade all the social and emotional interactions of the narcissist.