by accept_death » Mon 02 May 2005, 16:53:22
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('bobcousins', 'S')o if women don't like being referred to as bitches I am quite happy to use whatever term they prefer. There are plenty of neutral alternatives to the offending term. What is wrong with the simple alternatives "a slap in the face?", "kick in the butt" etc.
I can go along with that. He shouldn't have said the phrase "bitch slap upside the head". It's a deragatory term. What gets me though, is how Kunstler mentions a young woman was offended by his critique on the lack of "feminine" characteristics of modernist architecture. This is utterly ridiculous, imo, or as Kunstler puts it, "pernicious fucking nonsense". I'm sure these "feminists" would have no problem suggesting the rigid skyscraper as a metaphor for the male (ahem) "cock", or maybe in the designers case a lack there of. As a male I'm not offended, because I know it's true. Yet, suggest that a more round, aesthetically pleasing building constitutes feminine qualities and suddenly you are promoting "harmful, oppresive stereotypes about women". It's a double standard, and they know it. They feel they are entitled to it, it's sort of their way of "getting back" at the oppresive male world. They retreat to academia and make a lifestyle of it, forging their own aristocracy of politically correct culture. They pride themselves on having the "guts" to confront issues such as gender, sexual orientation and race, where the "white male" is afraid to because he feels they threaten his power in society (ha, not).
It's too bad because I think these women (it's always women. Black and gay males rarely bitch about this kind of thing even though they've suffered similar "oppression") have some good points to make. They just go about the wrong way in teaching them by essentially cutting off free speech. They don't seem to glimpse the irony, because they are living in a dream world, the world of the university. It's this PC additude that really ruins any chance of a decent left wing political movement in this country. It drives people like me away, and I'm about as anti right wing as they come. It's also a major reason nobody takes college students seriously. Kunstler is dead on with his comments.