by pup55 » Thu 10 Dec 2009, 19:19:27
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'S')ome people are just to stupid for their own good.
Nah, I think the problem is that people just can't constrain their own consumption, that is, tell themselves "no".....
The last time we went in to buy a car, we were sitting in the waiting room of the dealership, and in came a young couple, probably 30-ish. This was back when those big Escalades were featured in a lot of the music videos and these poor people were trying to buy a similarly big black Chevy Tahoe giant 6 mpg SUV....
We overheard the car salesman talking to them, and found out that they could not pass the credit check for the car loan, but being the nice guy he was, he would do everything he could to get them to just barely squeak under the credit limit, etc. etc, and if they would pay the full price, they would be driving that beautiful behemoth out the driveway that very day.... The poor guy was basically begging the dealer to give him a break and let him have it....I suppose the price was about $25K for a used one anyway....
What we really wanted to do was go over and shake the poor guy and his little wife and say "look, you idiots, you can't afford that big of a car, it will be a 4000 pound anchor around your necks for years to come"....
I will let you guess what kind of a deal we got when it was our turn.
I think this is probably pretty typical and even more heavily applied to real estate where if you are a young person, you have your parents, the media, your friends and everyone around you saying you should buy all the house you can, and you will be living out the "american dream"... We all know how that turned out.
There are obvioiusly some pretty highly educated people that are in this boat, aren't there? It's not directly related with education.
There is no one around that says "live in a much cheaper neighborhood than you can afford" or "drive that junker one more year, and learn to fix it after that".....Dave maybe one of the few Suze Orman occasionally also does this....Reason: The sales people for cars and homes, most peoples' main life expenditures, gets paid more if he sells a bigger car or house......
So it is up to the individual to say "no", defer consumption, and live less grandly then they can. Guess how that is working out. You know in a way the same thing applies to the obesity thing: You do not need more than 2000 calories a day, and it would be telling yourself "no" if you choose to pass up on the brownie and gob of ice cream.....We know how that is working out too, don't we?
We are a nation of five year olds.....Weak, with no self restraint.
Same goes with the government.....