by kublikhan » Wed 17 Jul 2013, 12:30:31
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Paulo1', 'R')egarding the mindset of suburban living, what do people do all day? I can see that living in a city would/could be vibrant, noisy, with many things to do. We live rural, and there is so much to do we can hardly keep up. It is not for everybody, but wonderful for us. I spent my family raising years in the suburbs. I was bored, and worked all the time to make it something it was not. Gardens, ponds, a pool, heated with wood, and chased around to get stuff to keep busy. Looking back I was going slowly crazy. Except for road hockey and skateboarding for the kids, it seems pretty artificial. Grim.
I think people are now open to alternatives and/or circumstances are forcing them to change where they live. With taxes and cummuting costs, plus chasing for activities, suburbia is a very expensive lifestyle. Just think of the toys parked in the driveways for most of the year. What a waste.
Not sure about where you lived, but there is plenty to do out here.
1. Woodfield Mall - one of the largest malls in the nation
2. Comedy clubs
3. Arlington International Racecourse - Horse racing
4. Medieval Times / Dave & Busters
5. Plenty for the kids(Gameworks, Legoland, lazer tag, whirlyball, etc)
6. Excellent park district with numerous programs and facilities for adults and kids alike(Swimming, tennis, gyms, cultural arts, etc)
7. Second largest public library in the state
8. Numerous restaurants and theaters
9. Numerous parks which often have live performances
10. Plenty of public transportation options(Metra, Pace, woodfield trolley, dial-a-ride, etc)
etc.
And it's less than an hour from Chicago. So if we get bored and want to check out the city it's no biggie. I live and work in the same town so I have a short commute. Property taxes are pretty low here. They are actually lowering taxes because of the good budget situation, the mall brings in lots of revenue. As opposed to the state of Illinois whose finances are a basket case.
Sure beats city living IMHO. I don't care for the crime, grime, traffic, etc. My father was mugged several times while working in the city. My wife was stalked in the city. Aside from the crime I don't care for the sheer density of it, so many people all smooshed together. But whatever makes you happy. If you prefer big city life or rural living, go for it!
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