by GHung » Tue 14 Nov 2017, 12:01:51
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IMO much safer to be poor in a rural community than an urban one. For one thing when you know people you tend to build relationships with them for good or ill, at least you know what to expect and who specifically to never trust. Every time I visit a city in the top 100 in the USA I feel as if a great weight of humanity is squashing the decency and joy right out of my being. When I was a child and into my 30's I would visit Detroit for cultural events, sporting events, or medical appointments and as I grew older I despised visiting more and more to the point I do not choose to go there now if I can find any way to avoid it. Cleveland and Toledo are not a great deal better, but you have to do what you must to get through life.
Count me in. I would much rather live in a shack on a bit of rural land that I own than a McMansion in the burbs or a nice condo in the city. I doubt I could survive or thrive in the latter at this point in my life, even though I have lived in several cities. Indeed, financially, we are at the point where we couldn't afford city life if we had to. We have adjusted our lifestyle and consumption to a much lower level, and our income reflects that. I see the accumulation of wealth as a proxy for consumption that we have little control over. Our goal is to not contribute to the spurious velocity of money; the greater economy be damned.
Besides, we have grown addicted to quiet. The most noise we hear on any day, generally, is the cry of Pileated Woodpeckers, a Wren bitching at the cat from the jasmine growing outside the bedroom window, or the rooster crowing in the driveway. Maybe a chainsaw in the distance as someone gets their firewood in.
As for neighbors, even the ones we aren't close to socially, are "used" to us and each other, know about us, and trust that we have character, whether or not we agree on everything. People come to each others' aid when needed and mind their own business on most things. That, too, is a sort of social "quietness". Living in cities, I always felt that others were up my ass, demanding my time, money, and attention, for no benefit to me or mine. That still happens several times a day, but I'm free to ignore the telephone.
.... and I'm sort of messy. No neighbors here close enough to complain.