by ReverseEngineer » Sat 21 Mar 2009, 17:46:47
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('SeaGypsy', 'T')he racism thread and imploding $ seem to be overwhelming distractions.
How do we make friends of strangers? Is this going to help? How do we sense our enemies? Will that help? Seems like people are not very focused on what they really need to know sometimes.

It is hard to talk about anything else when you observe on the one hand the monetary system in progressive stages of collapse and on the other get bombarded with racist vitriole, but of course there are many other worthwhile topics to talk about.
Making friends I think is about observation first, you have to gain some understanding of another person before you can become friends with them. Once you have some understanding, the next step is empathy, the ability to place yourself in their shoes to see how they view the world. Then you need to show compassion for them, and they have to see it is sincere. There is a big difference between friends of convenience versus true friends. Rich people often have friends of convenience, hangers on who appear to be friends but really are only such because they like being around the money. Poor folks of course almost never have friends of convenience. Middle class folks tend to have a mixture of both kinds. True friends are the only ones you want to be in the Bunker with of course. Friends of covenience will stab you in the back the moment they perceive advantage to it. You'll never have a true friend if you are a Nazi of course, its all about dog eat dog for Nazis and they only make friends of convenience if they perceive them to be advantageous. That is why they lost WWII in the philosophical sense.
Sensing enemies isn't all that hard either, on the street people show all sorts of body language cues that tell you they can be a threat. As we spin down, of course more and more people will become threats, and so it then is more important than EVER to have friends. Travelling around alone makes you an easy mark. Never travel around in an unknown area without your friends. People are pack animals, just like dogs. If you have friends, a group to travel with, you are always safer. In a crowded environment, being alone is a real danger, and of course with the overshoot and our big cities almost all the earth is a crowded environment now. In point of fact, having true friends is a better weapon than having a gun. If I was travelling with 2 friends, and we met up with a stranger with a gun and we did not have one, I would charge him and take the bullet for my true friends. So I believe they would do for me. Then he would be overrun and disarmed and killed in return. Of course if it was a sniper picking us off that wouldn't be possible, but the principle remains true. In the long run, your friends are the ones who you depend on, as they depend on you. Nobody can live without them, nor would you want to.
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('John Donne', 'N')o man is an island entire of itself; every man
is a piece of the continent, a part of the main;
if a clod be washed away by the sea, Europe
is the less, as well as if a promontory were, as
well as any manner of thy friends or of thine
own were; any man's death diminishes me,
because I am involved in mankind.
And therefore never send to know for whom
the bell tolls; it tolls for thee.