by Lighthouse » Tue 22 Aug 2006, 19:57:33
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Miki', 'Y')et, many seem to have very rigid views about other cultures, in spite of not having any meaningful exposure to them. I'm always amazed at the people in this forum who are convinced that they know a lot about Islam, in spite of the fact that they've never been the ME, and they don't have many Muslim friends.
One of the most effective ways of dispelling your own stereotypes/prejudism is exposing yourself to different groups of people. I have the feeling that most Americans don't have that chance, or simply don't seek it. New Yorkers and "San Franciscans" certainly do, but most cities in the US do not have that level of exposure to other cultures. Even where they do (eg, Arizona, Texas), most of the interactions are limited by segregation or involve a differential of status, and those kinds of interactions only help to confirm their stereotypes.
I travelled a lot and have many friends all over the world with different background. Two things I've learned. Patriotism and Religion are the cause of a lot of the problems we experience at the moment. The second is it does not matter where you go there are nice and intelligent people all over the world. The morons are a minority. Unfortunately it's the morons who are usually seeking power.
I've also a Muslim friend who would not shake my wife's hand nor allow me to shake his wife's hand. I don't have a problem with that, because I respect his believes. I also do not have a problem with my Catholic friend in Bavaria who does not et meat on a Friday and so on ...
I am a sarcastic cynic. Some say I'm an asshole. Now that we have that out of the way ...