Helping out the poor outside of a faith based org. does piss them off tho..I help out a poor person on an individual basis everytime I can, and will hear a lot of 'they are going to take you' or 'they are going to waste the money' and other such bs ..and I tell them right back "I don't care, it's my money to do with as I see fit, and that's what I choose to do with it."
I am amazed that it is more conservatives than liberals that are pissed off at that..actually, no, I'm not. What really gets their goat is when I give my money to a panhandler..I can almost garuntee there will be a lecture from some conservative if I do that about how the money will go to alchohol and/or drugs.
Do you know what? I DON'T CARE! ONCE AGAIN, IT'S MY MONEY, AND THAT'S HOW I WANT TO GIVE IT!
Once the money leaves my hands, it is theirs now to do with however they want.
Funny thing how people talk about agressive panhandlers. I will either give if I have it, what I can afford, or will strike up a convo with them, expressing regret on how I can't help out, but hope they are hangin in there..I may have met some that started out 'agressive' but never one that ended that way. Once a person realizes that I see them as just that, a PERSON, I don't and never have had any problems.
Of course the days when that will happen are not as often for me anymore, because I rarely go to the city that often, but when I lived in Ventura, there were a lot of panhandlers. I knew most of the regulars by name, and I would always stop and chat.
I think what most of them need more than anything else is to be treated like human beings.
There. There is your 'liberal retort' for the day.

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