by Byron100 » Fri 03 Aug 2007, 20:00:33
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')Another member touched on the subject of community and its relationship to stress.
Being lonely can indeed be stressful, but as I look back on my life, bad relationships with people were the most stressful experiences I endured. By far.
People can mess you up but good.
One of my dad's sayings was, "There are worse things than being alone."
Another wise aphorism (from "Peanuts"): "The secret of life is to reduce your worries to a minimum." (This in turn derives no doubt from Thoreau's injunction to "simplify, simplify.")
You've really hit the nail on the head with that one..."People can mess you up but good."
Relationship-wise, I've done very well...16 years and 6 months, with no end in sight
But as far as "work" relationships go...ugh. You have no idea of what it's like to cry each Sunday night, dreading the week to come. Or the drug-like high I would feel every Friday afternoon, as that meant I had 63 hours of freedom before enduring hell once more. It was just an incredibly bad, horrid experience that I wouldn't wish upon my worst enemy (except for one, of course...LOL)
To this day, I sit at home alone, for about 9 hours a day, just wishing I had a "job" like so many others do...wishing that I could actually have a "career" that I could take pride in, to bring home an actual paycheck every two weeks (from my own efforts, not part of some guvvie program...LOL.) But when I think about how bad it really can be...I guess staying at home, alone, is the best way for me to be. (Actually, I do keep busy with my various "projects", but you get the idea...hehe).
People really do suck sometimes
