by Snowrunner » Sun 16 Nov 2008, 17:14:29
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('cube', 'I') think one of the biggest life changes a person goes through is when they become financially independent. It totally changes a person.
IMHO the overwhelming majority of the Liberals out there fall into the, "Lets tax the rich and give to the poor" variety.
Liberals do not want to pay out of their own pocket for their pet projects ---> they want other people to pay for it.
Obviously you are generalizing, but I have been pretty much working since I was 13, first newspapers, than other things, but I never went into the "me me me me" attitude. I am more than happy to pay part of my income in taxes in order to help the less fortunate.
I am not going to retell my life story, but let me put it this way: I have seen both sides of the equation, good and bad, having and not having and in general it seems the people who have less overall appeared happier and they are mostly just as hard if not harder working than the ones that sit on a pile of money.
I have met very few rich people (read, 150K+/year single income) that I can really respect, most of them are persons I do not want as a friend but I realize that at times they do know the right people, so socializing happens, albeit with me holding my nose.
A quick story:
When I was still in highschool one of my classmate had parents that were semi rich, they owned several houses, they had their own businesses and from what I gathered had a few million in the banks.
When he invited me or others over and they had dinner he was called up for dinner while his friends were told to "wait in the room". No sharing, nothing, heck, I remember one of the other people when they were over pulling a bottle of lemonade out of the fridge and pulling out some glasses and he got all antsy over his parents finding out that "we" had drunk their lemonade.
Contrast that with another classmate whose parents barely scraped by, but when he had friends over they were more than willing to share their dinner.
The reality is, hard work alone won't get you anywhere, luck is always part of it, and as long as you only have to worry about yourself you can make a lot more happen.