[Quinny]

I wouldn't worry about acceptance there are a lot of women out there who would be turned on at having 'turned' you on.


$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('blukatzen', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('threadbear', 'Y')ou have to meet a woman who has been in a gay relationship who would like to try hetero. It can't be that difficult. You just have to define your demographic, cast your net and hope you don't catch a chick with a moustache and tatoos

[SeaGypsy]

Hi Heineken;
I find the west boring and depressing. I have many reasons to live in Asia. I can go back to Australia to work; my money goes 5 times further here. I am treated really well.
I recommend a website called person.com
Live webcam search; start a convo with anyone who you think looks OK or read their profile 1st. It's free, anonymous and minimal crap to get started.
My wife is one of over 300 women I met online over a 3 year period; she was the 3rd I thought was serious.
If you are serious, do a lot of research 1st.
The best thing about meeting ladies online is that the ability to search and filter is far greater than in physical reality; also allows a long period of getting to know each other before sexual chemistry overwhelms better judgement.
I write for a website called livinginthephilippines.com which has a lot about expat issues here.
I have also some relevant articles published on Dmitry Orlov's blogspot: Peak Oil in The Outback, Poverty an Asset, Assets a burden.

[uNkNowN ElEmEnt]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', '
')I think you're too hung up on playfully intended terminology, Element.

[Madpaddy]

PMS wrote,

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'G')ood luck and I hope things turn out well for you Heineken. If worst comes to worst you could just become an alcoholic! Just kidding, hang in there, buddy.

[Heineken]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Shannymara', 'I') think you need a vacation and an adventure, regardless of the relationship stuff. I hope you can take one soon. Why not go on a tour and meet people from here you like? You'd be welcome to stop by our place, for example. Or go to one of the countries that's been discussed in this thread, plan an interesting vacation, and just see what happens. There's got to be something you can do to help get you out of this funk.

[Heineken]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', 'G')ood luck and I hope things turn out well for you Heineken. If worst comes to worst you could just become an alcoholic! Just kidding, hang in there, buddy. As for the bisexual scene, I think it relates to that split into two distinct brain centers of sexuality. One is geared to long-term relationships and another completely distinct part is geared to one night stands. No kidding, researchers have identified them. Don't ask me how. The bisexual threesome scene is most certainly geared to the brief encounters part of the brain and not, from what you say, for you. I read what Ludi said, but I don't think that is likely to be really true, more likely just a come-on and cover.

[Heineken]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Madpaddy', 'P')MS wrote,

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'G')ood luck and I hope things turn out well for you Heineken. If worst comes to worst you could just become an alcoholic! Just kidding, hang in there, buddy.

[Ludi]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', 'T')he bisexual threesome scene

[PenultimateManStanding]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', ' ')"Oh you're really gay, you're just lying to yourself" they say

[Ludi]

OK, but he could possibly find a bisexual woman who is looking for a permanent relationship..

See what I'm saying?

(Feel I am not being understood - at all)

[PenultimateManStanding]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '
')(Feel I am not being understood - at all)

[Ludi]

"Forsaking all others."

What is so hard about that? It's worked for me.

[mos6507]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', '"')Forsaking all others."

What is so hard about that? It's worked for me.

[Auntie_Cipation]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'Y')ou know that scene in When Harry Met Sally when Carrie Fisher is in bed with Bruno Kirby. She turns her head and says something along the lines of "don't make me ever have to go back out there again" (out there being the rough and tumble world of dating). I so relate to that yearning. Who wants to put a lot of effort into building a relationship just to see if fizzle away?

[mos6507]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Auntie_Cipation', '
')I relate to that too, but come to the opposite conclusion. If *out there* is so bad, wouldn't you rather spend *a little time* out there than *all your time*?

[Heineken]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', 'O')K, but he could possibly find a bisexual woman who is looking for a permanent relationship..

See what I'm saying?

(Feel I am not being understood - at all)

[Heineken]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Shannymara', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'I') can't get away for more than two or three days, max, because I have a neurotic elderly mother and a psychotic dog that are utterly dependent on me.

[Aaron]

Ok I'm convinced... you're gonna die miserable & alone.

So... how about that economy eh?
<glances around nervously)

[Byron100]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Shannymara', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'I') can't get away for more than two or three days, max, because I have a neurotic elderly mother and a psychotic dog that are utterly dependent on me.

[Micki]

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Heineken', 'S')o here I am single again, and 53. I'm in very good physical shape, however, and look ten years younger than my age.

I have money, and there are millions of attractive but desperately poor women the world 'round.

Meeting and coping with American women can be extremely difficult. They tend to have unreasonable or unfair expectations and demands. They tend to hold my age against me and my difficult history.

Sometimes I think, why don't I just fly to one of those "developing" countries, hang out, and meet and carefully court an innocent, gentle, HIV-free native, marry her and bring her back to the farm. Say a $10,000 operation.

Crazy? Maybe.

What would be the best countries? Any race is fine. Obviously the things to avoid are golddiggers, getting murdered or ripped off, etc. Potentially hazardous.