This is a great thread. Thanks for starting it.
UGLY SECRET ABOUT ME:
I am a B**CH with almost zero tolerance when it comes to anyone in my family make unwarranted trips into town.
I know that's not right. But it is (was) my ugly secret.
I have to go into one of four rural town four days a week (my mileage is, thankfully, paid for by the state agency I work for) for my medical practice. I HATE stopping after office hours to grab something someone forgot at the grocery store, hardware store, etc. However, that is something I am willing to do, to save fuel.
Then when someone just wants to go to town because, well, just because they want to get off the farm for a few hours, and they indulge in that (usually by making up some thin excuse for the trip) -- I get REALLY cranky.
So there is my PO secret. I am a PO facist, I guess
Lumpy
"A government big enough to give you everything you want, is strong enough to take everything you have." Thomas Jefferson