by theozarker » Sat 20 Oct 2007, 12:52:15
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('lateStarter', 'O')k. Seriously, I understand the concept of multi-generational families and acquired wisdom that can be passed on to future generations. If your parents and grandparents have something to contribute, more power to you. But what if they spent their whole life absorbed in the 'consumption' model and have nothing really useful to contribute, and are basically 'resource' consumers?
For all you 'purists', I'd like to see how long you held to your opinion if you were saddled with taking care of an 87 year old, semi-invalid woman who can't speak, walk without assistance, and is still basically the same selfish bitch she was in her younger days...
How would you like to clean shit off the bathroom walls several times a week because of her 'decorating' efforts? Would you be real excited to wake up at 2 am and see her sitting beside your bed (how she gets downstairs is still a mystery!) with a diaper that needs to be changed?
I still see that she has some good moments (watching the dogs play, etc) and I would be the last to take things into my own hands. OTOH, I often think about taking her for a long drive in the forest and dropping her off for a long walk.
I'm not sure if we will ever see euthanasia become official 'policy'. It may just end up as the default policy through neglect and abandonment as things deteriorate. If you had to bug-out for a 50 mile hike with your wife and 2 kids, what are you going to do with semi-invalid Grandma who requires medication you don't have and refuses to leave the hose she was raised in. Just asking...
Latestarter, I think these are valid questions and ones we may all have to answer in one way or another if peak oil comes down faster and harder than expected. But this is quite different than Bob's "lets kill all the selfish old hanger-oners so I can be sure and get mine" attitude.
Even though I'm 67 and still in good health, trust me I've asked these questions of myself in grappling with the implications of peak oil.
I would hope that if my health deteriorates precipitously and things are really bad, my son would choose to let me die (or even help me die) if it meant him being able to go on and increasing my grandson's chances of survival.
I intend to try and survive and help others survive as long as I can, but I'm not under any illusions that my survival at any cost to my son and grandson or any healthy younger person is more important than theirs.
Linda
Blessed are the cracked, for they are the ones who let the light in. - Maxine