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Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 19:12:44

I'd be interested to hear your stories about what happened when you tried to tell somebody about this problem and got angry or scornful replies. The one that sticks in my mind more than two years later is when I showed a class of high school kids the oil production bell curve on the chalkboard and put the present day as the top of the curve. A girl in the front row was immediate in understanding the implications and shouted, 'you're lying!'
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Anthrobus » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 19:28:33

my fahter in law's way of discussing is usually to deny global warming and then, after some time of arguing by me, his opinion changes to "its to late now to do something".
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Grifter » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 19:33:05

I was trying to explain that we must try to make the business more "peak oil" proof. Engage in other areas that were less popular / profitable in terms of what was invested. Its hard to explain without going into loads of boring detail. Hope you get the idea.

I was told about the MASSIVE find in the caspian sea, technology and the fact that this has happened before in the 70's. I didn't argue the case very well but I did have some facts whereas they did not.

Later on (months maybe over a year) one of the 5 people I'd been talking to about it came up to me asking questions. His apparent attitude was that he would be dead when it happens so it didn't matter but I sensed he was very concerned.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Lore » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 19:34:55

In terms of Global Warming:

1) Complete denial that it is happening.

2) It's happening but man is not the cause.

3) it's happening but far to slowly to worry about.

4) It's getting warmer, but it won't be as bad as the alarmist say, may even be good for us.

5) It's happening but doing anything won't make a difference.

6) I'm too old to care if it does happen, I'll be gone by then.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 19:47:57

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Anthrobus', ' ')his opinion changes to "its to late now to do something".
This, and lore's last point about GW lend support to a theory of mine. I told my stepfather about this and he said the same thing as lore's last point, 'I'm glad I'm old now' Then he said something about my kids and how sorry he was. My theory is that much of humanity senses that something is wrong. We are smarter than yeast in this sense, that we can feel it and our minds register it. The reason for this is that we are organic creatures. However much we have attempted to created a system exempt from natural laws, we sense that we aren't exempt at all. Not just us peakoilers, but everybody senses it at some level. Even the most strident denialist cornucopians probably have a little thread of doubt in their minds that they work hard to deny.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby dinopello » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 20:18:59

This is a good thread idea. I could come up with a few. Let me start with the one that vexes me most.

It's a guy I work with and also a good friend from college. He's a few years older than me, has 2 young kids and also an engineer. I really admire him and his lifestyle is perfect for post peak survival. Let's see... he's in great shape and runs 10K's regularly and marathons occasionally, he's an ameteur mechanic, he plays the bass, he's an awesome gardener and he hunts deer. Like me, he lives where he can walk to just about everything and does. He's a great guy under pressure and someone you want on our side if a fight breaks out.

But, he's an extreme optimist. I'm not sure if he believes we are at peak now or not, but whatever the situation he thinks we will figure something out to maintain an acceptable lifestyle whether it be efficiency, new energy sources, or whatever. I'm not sure of the extent he has performed his own analysis, but I'm sure its less than me (which isn't all that much relative to the uncertainty).

The main point is that he is not one bit worried. I always say worry doesn't help and not too worry, but in the end I am. It bugs me that he is not worried. And I'm pretty sure its not an act. It is more than he's just not worried, but its a little ambiguous whether he really thinks it won't be a problem or that he just doesn't wish to consider the negative ramifications.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Lore » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 20:21:28

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Anthrobus', ' ')his opinion changes to "its to late now to do something".
This, and lore's last point about GW lend support to a theory of mine. I told my stepfather about this and he said the same thing as lore's last point, 'I'm glad I'm old now' Then he said something about my kids and how sorry he was. My theory is that much of humanity senses that something is wrong. We are smarter than yeast in this sense, that we can feel it and our minds register it. The reason for this is that we are organic creatures. However much we have attempted to created a system exempt from natural laws, we sense that we aren't exempt at all. Not just us peakoilers, but everybody senses it at some level. Even the most strident denialist cornucopians probably have a little thread of doubt in their minds that they work hard to deny.


Exactly, everybody senses something is wrong. That's why you get the "deer in the headlights" look from so many people when you first broach the problems. That brief second exposes their inner self awareness to their environment. Like predators sniffing the wind, we can smell it. The problem with man is that he has the ability to rationalize the fear away rather then accept the fact that there is any real danger.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby killJOY » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 20:39:46

Some friends of mine came over to watch End of Suburbia couple of years ago.

One woman really got it. After the movie, she covered her face and said, "Oh. My. God."

Later, she told stories about how people at work thought she was a nutcase because she would talk about peak oil.


Recently, she has shut up about peak oil. It never seems to come up anymore.


She is now pregnant.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Lore » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 20:46:13

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('killJOY', 'S')ome friends of mine came over to watch End of Suburbia couple of years ago.

One woman really got it. After the movie, she covered her face and said, "Oh. My. God."

Later, she told stories about how people at work thought she was a nutcase because she would talk about peak oil.


Recently, she has shut up about peak oil. It never seems to come up anymore.


She is now pregnant.


I didn't know that discussions of PO could cause pregnancy? I'm sure there are a lot of clinics that would like to know this!
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby NEOPO » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 21:16:54

"You are lying!" :lol:

Yeah I received a few of the "thank god I will be dead then" remarks and got to watch as those people realized how callous and self centered such a statement really is!!! :o

I also received a few "God will take care of us" as well and at this point I am not sure which is worse. My reply is always "didnt God tell Noah to build an ark?" or that one guy to go into the wilderness? hahah

Yet do not give up children, as my aunt says "you are planting seeds" and sometimes it is in barren fields and in that case do not expect anything to grow just be happy when something does! :-D

IMHO anyone who is not seriously prepping/planning is in denial.
Do you really want to hear my stories which will expose your own level of denial?

So what if they drop nuclear bombs, we cant stop it, did you quit your job today?
So you know you should prep yet you are not and I cant fix you thus good night and good freakin luck! :lol:
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby PenultimateManStanding » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 21:30:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('NEOPO', '"')
Do you really want to hear my stories which will expose your own level of denial?
Yes, I do. I have a pretty good collection of seeds, guns, water buckets, etc. Yet you interpret my gloomy outlook as denial. Maybe your ecovillage fantasies are your own way of denial.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby auscanman » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 22:31:05

It's interesting how law students react to this. Most of them look at you like you're a total nut when you even bring up anything related to energy, finite resources or conservation. Then again the only things that matter in their yuppie world are social status, Entertainment Tonight, and making as much money as possible...

I went to a screening of End of Suburbia last year at the law school, mostly to see others would react. As would be expected the general reaction was that we should have been warned, that someone must be to blame for this, and that people are stupid anyway for not doing anything about this. I'm sure none of them were affected at all by watching this, and have not done any further research, or adapted their plans the slightest bit; it was just something to debate for an hour or so.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby cynicalheretic » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 23:11:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('dinopello', 'T')his is a good thread idea. I could come up with a few. Let me start with the one that vexes me most.

It's a guy I work with and also a good friend from college. He's a few years older than me, has 2 young kids and also an engineer. I really admire him and his lifestyle is perfect for post peak survival. Let's see... he's in great shape and runs 10K's regularly and marathons occasionally, he's an ameteur mechanic, he plays the bass, he's an awesome gardener and he hunts deer. Like me, he lives where he can walk to just about everything and does. He's a great guy under pressure and someone you want on our side if a fight breaks out.

But, he's an extreme optimist. I'm not sure if he believes we are at peak now or not, but whatever the situation he thinks we will figure something out to maintain an acceptable lifestyle whether it be efficiency, new energy sources, or whatever. I'm not sure of the extent he has performed his own analysis, but I'm sure its less than me (which isn't all that much relative to the uncertainty).

The main point is that he is not one bit worried. I always say worry doesn't help and not too worry, but in the end I am. It bugs me that he is not worried. And I'm pretty sure its not an act. It is more than he's just not worried, but its a little ambiguous whether he really thinks it won't be a problem or that he just doesn't wish to consider the negative ramifications.




Why should he worry, from what I can see of what you wrote... it sounds like that guy is better off than 99.9% of the people in this forum.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby dinopello » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 23:39:30

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('cynicalheretic', '
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Yes, well then so am I apparently and that's exactly what worries me.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby eastbay » Mon 30 Apr 2007, 23:50:11

PMS,

Excellent topic idea. This is mentioned all the time around here, but not on a single thread like this... at least not that I can recall.

I cut and pasted this from the Psychology section because it fits nicely here too.

The response I received wasn't exactly 'strident', but it was designed to inform the group that I was a quart low. It can be interesting having what others may call a fringe or minority perspective on anything. Welcome to the fringe everyone... heh.


Just when I think I'm done wasting my time trying to awaken people to peak oil, I go and open my big fat mouth one more time. It happened just this afternoon. Someone at my local temple mentioned that another temple has a very small parking lot requiring people to park far away for special events and this may be due to their poor planning.

Well, I suggested that due to reduced oil and gasoline availability we may soon experience increasing prices thereby reducing driving, therefore maybe it wasn't such poor planning after all. One person said, 'what do you mean?' I said, well, as we know, everything is impermanent and that includes oil and therefore gasoline. Oil's getting scarcer, you know, it's running out. Soon it'll be too costly for casual personal trips (or words to that effect). As he started nodding his head and grinning around to the others, I knew I had screwed up again by blurting out a mention of oil depletion.

I should have kept my mouth shut. Not a single person in the group has a clue. Plus, this was a group of really nice and kind people, friends of mine who may now, because of that one series of comments about peak oil, be questioning my ability to properly organize rational thoughts.

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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby NEOPO » Tue 01 May 2007, 00:07:39

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('NEOPO', '"')
Do you really want to hear my stories which will expose your own level of denial?
Yes, I do. I have a pretty good collection of seeds, guns, water buckets, etc. Yet you interpret my gloomy outlook as denial. Maybe your ecovillage fantasies are your own way of denial.


Heirloom quality? 8)

All I can do is make a judgement based upon what you give us here at po.com and you have given us alot no doubt about that yet it is rarely seeds, guns and water buckets which IMHO = at least some hope. Hope that you dont seem to be sharing with the rest of the class most of the time.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby I_Like_Plants » Tue 01 May 2007, 00:19:15

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('zensui', '
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In a talk with a PO-aware friend we came to a similar conclusion. There's something 'in the air', people unconciously sense that something is wrong. When TSHTF will be the time when this seeds can be useful... shame it won't be before as worldwide precautions...


Yes, there's a feeling something's not right, but even here in the San Francisco Bay Area it's considered to be probably those damn furriners or somethin'. I've given up saying a peep about Peak Oil, the hatred and scorn are unbelieveable.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby cynicalheretic » Tue 01 May 2007, 00:22:10

I say we all get together and put together a movie with actors / scenery and the full budget (how many people on here)

If we get every member to donate $50.00 we can easily raise enough to make it work.

What was I just talking about, I am confused. Nappy time yay
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Newsseeker » Tue 01 May 2007, 08:44:19

My mom's a doomer and my dad's a cornucopian. My dad defines peak oil as "the price of oil goes up a little bit" and leaves it at that. All hope is lost. My girlfriend accepts it as true but is completely bored by it.
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Re: Strident Denial Stories

Unread postby Newsseeker » Tue 01 May 2007, 08:48:10

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('cynicalheretic', 'I') say we all get together and put together a movie with actors / scenery and the full budget (how many people on here)

If we get every member to donate $50.00 we can easily raise enough to make it work.

What was I just talking about, I am confused. Nappy time yay


If we up the donation to $10,000 we can probably get Brad Pitt to star as Aaron. One of the Wayans brothers can play Matt Savinar and it will star Matt Simmons as himself. Cynicalheretic you are definitely on to something. Do we need to run this by Aaron or should we just start collecting the money? I'll work on storyboards this afternoon and there just might be a guest appearance by the Teletubbies. Man, I love this idea!
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