by seldom_seen » Sat 21 Apr 2007, 00:09:06
The first rule of this game is that it is not a game.
Everyone must play.
You must love us.
You must go on living.
Be yourself, but play a consistent and acceptable role.
Control yourself and be natural.
Try to be sincere.
Thus is the social double bind game as described by Alan Watts. He went on to say that a double-bind game is a game with self-contradictory rules, a game doomed to perpetual self-frustration like trying to invent a perpetual motion machine.
So there we have it, it's a game and we're under no compulsion to survive it. In fact we can't survive it, just as we can't invent a perpetual motion machine. Coming to grips with PO has much to with coming to grips with our own individual mortality. We all have our own personal die-offs to reckon with.
So as Teddy Roosevelt said "Do what you can, with what you have, where you are." Most people will drop their petty internet chat forum BS when the times dictate (me included). Everything will be re-arranged.
In the meantime:
Do not bum yourselves out. Be as I am--a reluctant enthusiast, a
part-time crusader, a half-hearted fanatic. Save the other half of
yourselves for pleasure and adventure.
So get out there and hunt and fish and mess around with your friends,
ramble out yonder and explore the forests, climb the mountains, bag the
peaks, run the rivers, breathe deep of that yet sweet and lucid air, sit
quietly for a while and contemplate the precious stillness, that lovely,
mysterious and awesome space.
Enjoy yourselves, keep your brain in your head and your head firmly
attached to your body, the body active and alive, and I promise you one
sweet victory over our enemies, over those deskbound men with their
hearts in a safe deposit box and their eyes hypnotized by desk
calculators. I promise you this: you will outlast the bastards. You will
live to piss on their graves.
~ed abbey
But how the world turns. One day, cock of the walk. Next, a feather duster.