by WildRose » Fri 21 Jul 2006, 05:25:43
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Can we just agree that people are a little more repulsive as they age? Women who try to change that are missing out on one of the great opportunities of their lives--a sex free existence.
Gosh, that's funny, Threadbear! And I guess I never thought of it that way - the reward of a sex-free existence for escaping the trappings of sexual attraction.
So many of the changes men and women strive for in their appearance are driven by the desire to look younger, to defy the physical metamorphosis of middle-age. There are things we can't change, that's for sure. Of course, the reason why plastic surgery and other measures are so popular is because some folks have a hard time accepting the natural changes their bodies and faces undergo with age. And I think this is directly related to a culture that, by and large, equates youth with beauty.
Hollywood and magazines have been very successful at shaping our ideas of what is desirable and this is being relayed to our young people, who no doubt will go on to have the same angst about their appearance as they age. I think men and women need to be easier on themselves in this regard. I mean, we can stay as fit as possible because we feel good and we're healthier that way, but do we really need to have the same size waist we had at age 24? And does naturally grey hair make our spouse less attractive when he/she still has that same great smile, beautiful eyes?
I just thought of something else - our focus on trying to look younger is bound to change when rougher days come - we'll have less time/money/inclination to worry about it.