Need Helpful Advice

by **Lokutus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:00:10

Okay this concerns a problem I'm having with my new girlfriend.

We met in an online chatroom two weeks. We chatted for a week and half and finally agreed to meet in person last Wednesday over lunch for coffee at Starbucks. Well, she showed up and everything went great except that she did act kinda funny and announced after just ten minutes that she remembered something that required her to go back to the office.

So we said our good-byes and parted. That afternoon I had flowers delivered to her office but heard nothing back from her. So I called her 2 or 3 times Wednesday night but there was no answer. I also sent a few emails that received no reply.

On Thursday I must have called her at work 6 times and left messages. Then I left another 3 or 4 messages at her home after work. No reply.

By Friday I set my speed-dialler to just keep ringing her cell number. But every call got picked up by v-mail.

On Saturday I did the same thing. My phone must have dialled her number over 1000 times.

Now it's Sunday evening and I am not getting any responses to my calls, IMs, or emails. I have probably driven past her house at least 100 times.

My question is: should I send more flowers first thing Monday or wait till the afternoon?

I know that deep down inside she loves me as much I love her. Maybe she just doesn't know how to show it?

by **Cyrus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:04:59

[web]http://www.flashplayer.com/music/shefreakinblockedme_movie.php[/web]

by **Novus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:06:48

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On Saturday I did the same thing. My phone must have dialled her number over 1000 times.

Now it's Sunday evening and I am not getting any responses to my calls, IMs, or emails. I have probably driven past her house at least 100 times.

by **Lokutus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:07:10

Tonight I'll install one of these tracking devices on her car so that I can keep better tabs on her comings and goings. www.TrackStick.com.

by **Cyrus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:09:21

Honestly now.. I'd knock on her door..

by **Lokutus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:21:46

I think her problem is a fear of commitment.

:roll:

by **hotsacks** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:24:51

Surprising that someone like yourself who has a way with the women is having these problems.
I think the lady in question believes you're cheap.Anyone can rent a speed dialler and how much do a few flowers cost?
I recommend you rent an ad plane towing one of those eternal love banners.A blimp would be even better.
I've had these troubles myself,even had a broad walk on me because I showed up on our first date with a moving truck.Go figure.
They're unpredictable creatures.You're better off sleeping with your dog.

by **Lokutus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:29:57

She works on the 32nd floor of an office tower. Right now I'm thinking of having a big "Will You Marry Me?" banner hung outside the 32nd floor of the tower facing hers.

She's just a shy girl who needs to be drawn out.

by **hotsacks** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:34:14

Wasn't it Elvis said:"Fools rush in"? I'd listen to The Man and give her another week before you propose.
I could give you some other pointers but..you know..the COC and all...

by **Lokutus** » Sun 22 Jan 2006, 23:36:50

Playas don't need no pointers, duder.

by **PenultimateManStanding** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 00:25:21

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('hotsacks', 'W')asn't it Elvis said:"Fools rush in"? I'd listen to The Man and give her another week before you propose.

by **Lokutus** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 00:56:57

I am posting this using my Blackberry from a large shrub on her property. She does not appear to be home yet.

by **Free** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 02:12:03

Boy, I seriously hope this is some kind of joke, otherwise you got real problems...

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by **Lokutus** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 02:20:09

Is there anyway of shutting this music off before she returns? Music coming from a shrub in the middle of the night will be a big tip-off for her that something is amiss.

by **PenultimateManStanding** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 02:24:16

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Free', 'B')oy, I seriously hope this is some kind of joke, otherwise you got real problems...

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by **Free** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 02:34:58

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Free', 'B')oy, I seriously hope this is some kind of joke, otherwise you got real problems...

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by **Lokutus** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 03:20:01

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Free', 'B')oy, I seriously hope this is some kind of joke, otherwise you got real problems...

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by **PenultimateManStanding** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 03:32:42

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lokutus', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('PenultimateManStanding', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Free', 'B')oy, I seriously hope this is some kind of joke, otherwise you got real problems...

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by **Lokutus** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 03:50:10

Your avatar hasn't appeared for so long that I can't remember what you look like, PMS.

by **PenultimateManStanding** » Mon 23 Jan 2006, 09:49:46

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Lokutus', 'Y')our avatar hasn't appeared for so long that I can't remember what you look like, PMS.

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