by Paul64 » Sun 27 Nov 2005, 11:37:36
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')We still buy each other small things for Christmas, but try to make it items that are inexpensive and/or consumable. Food, soap, that kind of thing. I usually just send a card for birthdays, Mother's Day, etc. For my sister, I'll donate to one of her favorite charitable or political causes.
You have an ideal approach methinks. Ever notice how in the last few years, there has been a boom here in America in storage facilities? I live in southern Massachusetts, Boston suburbs, and they are everywhere around here! It must be because people have accumulated so much stuff over the years they don't have a place to put it all!! And if they live in a 4500 sq ft McMansion, that's really saying something
Where I was living before, we used a common dumpster to toss our rubbish. On more than 1 occasion, I saw people throwing down there what looked like good stereo speakers. Apparently the 15 year old stereo was no match for the new home surround-sound theater. I love music, yet I find my 20 year old system pleases me just fine.
At this point, getting things like a new answering machine, a new model computerized food processor, whatever...forgetting even the hidden environmental degradation involved in manufacturing and disposal of these items...receiving such goods as gifts actually reduces rather than increases my quality of life. If someone, anyone, gave me a big-screen plasma TV or home theater, for any reason at all, based solely on future quality of life issues I would not accept it.
So...I have on my XMas wish list some pairs of socks and briefs and maybe a nice sweater. But nothing else, especially no electronics, please!