by Sixstrings » Sat 15 Aug 2015, 03:11:31
I was looking up some information. Some clinics advertise abortions "up to 21 weeks" or "up to 24 weeks," etc. One advertised, "you may not be too late."
This is a figure that astounds me and is so hard to believe, but apparently 1/3 of all women have an abortion in their lifetime:
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http://www.1in3campaign.org/en/That's actually a pro choice website sharing stories of women, and why those chose abortion. The reasons vary, from a 48 year old woman that felt she was too old to have a baby. To then, young women in difficult circumstances.
But I just find that "1/3 of all women" figure astounding, because I've actually never heard of one woman -- in my personal life, as in friends-of-friends / anyone that anybody I know knows, that had an abortion. (well I take that back, there was ONE, but everyone talked about it afterward for YEARS, and disapproved, though nobody told her. I'm just being frank and honest, by the way.)
I'm a man, but all the women I know very much disapprove of abortions -- it's considered shameful, and wrong. I've known some women that are pro choice, on the issue, but would never have an abortion themselves.
So anyhow.. I dunno, guys.. 24 weeks?
That's 6 months.
Why can't the timeframe allowed, be dialed back? When is the most reasonable timeframe, that a woman would know she is pregnant? It seems to me that the inescapable moral issue is that the more time goes by, the more wrong it becomes to then have an abortion.
And aborted fetal tissue research should just be banned. Doesn't matter if there's money involved or if it were all volunteer and free, that should just be banned.
edit: and just to be fair, actually that's understandable at age 48 -- that's a high risk pregnancy, at that age.
And, to be fair -- from what I understand, men are often a reason for abortion as well. They won't support the baby, they may rather the pregnancy be ended for the same reason a young mother would, to just not have the responsibility of parenthood. Or the monthly child support, for 18 years.
To be fair -- the same people that are so much against abortion, often aren't for sex ed or birth control. So how does that make any sense.
So the whole issue is very complicated -- and nobody would want to shame a woman, after that decision is made, what's done is done.
But, then, there is just the issue of being humane -- when is too late, too late? And this fetal tissue research, that should be outright banned. And, abortion clinics SHOULD be government regulated and watched closely -- yet you can't ever get that done, because then people say that's going after the general right to an abortion.
Those on the left are afraid of the slippery slope of too much incursion of abortion rights. But then the slippery slope just goes too far the other way, as demonstrated in the videos in this thread. The abortion clinics actually are not regulated, enough.
So.. it's complicated stuff.. this is why courts are important, because somebody has to decide a middle ground that allows for the morally best thing with all rights balanced out against each other. Society has a right -- and obligation -- that things are done humanely, a mother has rights, some would argue a father should have some rights, and at some point a baby in the womb is awful close to a baby and has rights as well.