There you see the broad range of opinions here at PO.com. Some people are "doomers", as are you - and as most of us started out in the beginning. Some people believe in "fast crash" - and even 20 years from now would be a fast crash - while others are "slow crash". Some would gladly seek the end of humans for the sake of the planet, others like me see the planet as the temporary home of humanity, and fear only that slow crash will remove our space travel capability before we have self-sustaining habitats for humanity in space.
You are entirely correct, of course - you and my hoped-for grandkids will see the population top out and decline. Just as today you can sit down at a computer and display images from the War of Northern Agression (i.e. the Civil War), in a few decades you will see the population crash in bit-perfect digital video, as more people than are alive today fairly abruptly die. It will be the most terrible event in human history, recorded for all to see in digital archives that will preserve every detail. The stain on our souls still persists from the "Dark Ages" in Europe, when man ate man, even though we hardly remember those times, except in fairy tales like Hansel and Gretel. But the Internet will preserve the images, as well as videos on how to butcher human carcasses and recipes for "sweet breads". All the horror, preserved in digital clarity, for all time.
You sense it already, don't you? The Great Death is coming, and that is the reason Zombies are so popular in human culture today. Had those big dome "Scientists" just thought the whole concept through two centuries ago, when Reverend Malthus published his thoughts, we could have done something about that excess population, before this happened:

...and doomed all the inhabitants of Earth to starvation, disease, conflict, and death.