by smiley » Sun 15 Aug 2004, 11:11:58
$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I')t seems that from talking to Palestinians, that Arabs understand about as much about Western-culture as the average American does about Arabs. My Palestinian hosts seemed genuinely saddened by the lack of contact with Western tourists and felt that they were being avoided. This was back in 1996!
Good point, During my travels in the Maghreb I also found it very difficult to make contact with the local population, but also enlightening when I succeeded.
Many Arabs have a very blurred vision of the western civilization. They see capitalism as the stronghold of sin. They think we have no moral standards. That we do everything for our own benefit, even if it means hurting or killing others (or even our own). We have no respect for family values, no sexual morale etc.
On the other hand many westerners are convinced that the Arab culture is a very violent one. They tell about how cruel they are to women and how cruel their laws are. That they lie and deceit and cannot be trusted. Their highest their goal is to exterminate everything western on this planet.
The media on both sides are very keen to encourage that vision for the sake of sensation. Not hindered by any understanding of the opposite culture they write very venomous articles about the other side. I'm particularly shocked by the types of generalizations they make.
I'm not even sure if you can speak of a single Arab culture or if you can speak of a single western culture. Among the Arab countries there are some, which are extremely tolerant and liberal aswell as some, that are very conservative and intolerant. Just like among the western countries.
The media simply take the worst examples of misconduct in a single country, exaggerate them and apply them to the whole culture. As there is almost no contact between these cultures, these lies refuse to disappear and start growing.
Despite the global impact of oil depletion I haven't met any Arabs on this forum. I think that is a sign of the division between these two worlds. We don't go on their sites and they don't come to ours. So every chance of having a constructive conversation and to clarify some of the misunderstandings is lost.
It is sad really when you think of it.