Hi Patti, I just want to say like everyone else here that your show sample is outstanding. I see you as the 21st century Martha Stewart. You've got two important factors going for you: presentation and content.
Presentation -- You're upbeat but not a blindly optimistic Barbie doll like a lot of TV hostesses. That's because you've worked to gain your own knowledge. You are intelligent and speak well. I imagine you get along well with a lot of personality types and that you'd be a good interviewer too. You're attractive and I think your Puerto Rican heritage lends credibility to your endeavor & increases the potential reach of your message.
Some people will respond to your sexiness as a cheap stunt for attention; that's unavoidable and I think you should prepare for it. Misogynistic jerks like Mr. Blister are just trying to be hurtful. I think most people are going to realize that's just who you are, it's no put-on act, and it will be no problem for them. And there will be plenty of people who don't even notice.
Content -- You've put in years of experimentation to develop a unique gardening system that works well. That's really central to what your show has to offer. It's a lifestyle you believe is better, more healthy, more fun, and more environmentally responsible. Your pride and pleasure in what you've built comes through the screen. That would be enough to make me want to see every episode.
Your mother and the advertising guy represent a certain point of view, call it mainstream, call it generic America, whatever. A lot of people buy into it -- the idea that working with the soil and with animals are wierd, substandard activities. To that mindset, only poor people and mixed-up hippies do the kinds of things you're doing. Obviously you are far beyond that attitude, because you've spent 10 years developing your own system. That takes a special determination and your TV show will move many other people to start on their own unique paths.
You don't even need the possiblity of Peak Oil and global warming to find pleasure and satisfaction in urban permaculture. And there will be a sizable audience for your show even if those frightening scenarios do not come to pass.
But I think they are going to happen, one way or another, and the impact on our culture could be mild or strong. Either way, the interest in your TV show is bound to increase. You might have a niche audience now, but a useful, upbeat how-to show like yours will grow and grow in popularity.
I really hope you will make your shows available on DVD. That's a whole business in itself, but the costs aren't too high and the exposure is great. You can fit 4 half-hour shows on a recordable DVD, eight half-hour shows on a pressed DVD. People will pay for that if the information is really useful.
If there's just one piece of advice I can offer for the content of your show, it's MORE PEOPLE! Lots of one-on-one time with you explaining and showing your garden is great, but let's also see the people who help you, people who learn from you, and other people doing similar gardens. The relationships you've developed with your neighbors are important -- everyone has to deal with neighbors and their potential complaints about noise, smells and unsanitary conditions.
Dealing with the law is an important issue that I hope you'll cover sometime. A lot of people are working on this, for instance City Chickens at
http://home.centurytel.net/thecitychick ... nlaws.html
Check out Darryl Hannah's "Love Life" show -- a similar orientation as yours, and Ms. Hannah is almost as good-looking as you!
http://www.dhlovelife.com/v2/show/archive/index1.html
The essential difference is that Ms. Hannah is acting as an investigator and an interviewer, finding out what other people are up to in lots of different fields. That's interesting, but the show doesn't have a clear focus ("green lifestyle" can mean almost anything), and it doesn't directly give people the how-to knowledge to start urban permaculture on their own. Ms. Hannah has not (as far as I know) developed her own gardening system, while you are an expert on a focused topic. That's makes a big difference.
One other piece of advice is to be more clear about what your needs are to get this project going. Are you looking for loans, technical help, networking, what? Please be specific and I think there will be quite a few people who see great potential and will want to assist.