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Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ayame » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 02:30:23

I was wondering if anyone else feels slightly annoyed and disgusted with being lumbered with the tab of peak oil by previous generations. In most cultures you are taught to respect your elders as they are meant to be 'wise'. Personally I look at my grandparents and parents with disdain. My grandparents keep on asking me what went wrong with the world. I explain about population, resources and peak oil and then my grandmother laughs and says 'they will think of something'. Maybe it is amusing for her at 92+ as she is very much on her way out of this world. I always wonder why it is 'they' must think of something, afterall the romans and mayans and all great civilisations that ever collapsed never managed to think of something. Last time I snapped whilst she was laughing and told her that it wasn't very funny for the young people. Also whenever I mention peak oil my grandfather makes a disapproving grunt, last time he actually told me to stop talking about it. My parents aren't much better. They are in denial about the whole thing. Whilst they were busy procreating and making me they never thought once about limits to growth. My mother went on holiday to the great barrier reef when she was around 30 and we have numerous decorative pieces of coral around the house that she picked up and walked off with (whilst it was still living). To me it seems incredulous that people were so naive back then. Did they not ever stop to think what thousands of people doing so might impact on the environment? It seems that I am a different breed to most people. I can't help feeling angry at past generations though. It's not them that are going to bear the full brunt of their foolishness, it's their children or children's children. Somehow it just seems unjust.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby pablonite » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 03:00:42

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', 'M')y mother went on holiday to the great barrier reef when she was around 30 and we have numerous decorative pieces of coral around the house that she picked up and walked off with (whilst it was still living). To me it seems incredulous that people were so naive back then.

Nice rant!
I got some bad news though, your all victims but most of all you!
You can attribute almost everything you mention to one factor and that is change. Why all the change anyway?

You might think it's evolution, history just unfolded that way, a totally unpredictable course of events that led us all to the grand mess!

Well, think again but try and look at it this way...

http://nord.twu.net/acl/dialectic.html

This is the ONLY explanation for how we have come to be disgusted with the very things that brought us into this world and protected us at our most vulnerable moments in the first place. You should look at it a different way and try to feel some empathy and respect for your grandparents, admit it - you enjoyed those pieces of coral just as much as they have and no - it wasn't wrong for her to pick them IMO.

Seriously, talk to the old man about THIS theory and see if you start making some progress with him :)
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby mos6507 » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 03:22:17

It's hard to be angry with people who simply didn't realize what they were doing to the world. I mean, before 5 years ago I didn't have a clue about peak oil, and another 5 or so years prior I didn't give much thought to carbon emissions. Go back a little further, maybe to the mid 80s and before that nobody was bothering to recycle.

That people continue not to "get it" as the warning signs are blaring is a source of constant frustration, but just as many younger people don't get it as older as far as I can see. Younger meaning the 30 and 40 something yuppies who are in my town who think they are doing the world a favor with screwing in CFLs in their oil-heated McMansions or driving a hybrid Tahoe.

The one time I got really angry at my mom, though, was I brought her a news report talking about sea-level rise predictions for Florida that indicated that her home down there will be underwater for sure. She skimmed through it and said something along the lines of "but that's going to take 100 years!" That sort of response just wreaked of selfishness. That we could casually dismiss the untold damage that sealevel rise alone will do to the earth just because we won't live to see the worst of it. And this coming from someone who pats herself on the back for giving to charities like Greenpeace and the MSPCA.

I'm quite certain that there is a contingent of folks who already know at some basic level that we're screwed, but they've decided that there is nothing that we can or should do about it. Just keep putting cards on the house of cards until it falls. These were ideas that were fairly well explored in Dan Quinn's Ishmael. This sense that the way things are is the only way things could ever be, and we must continue the plan even if it means going straight over a cliff, because to rebel is to be cast into the gutter.

I think that's why people react so badly to being told about doom, since the knowledge won't help at all if they don't feel there is anything that can be done to mitigate it. Acknowledging it will only make them feel miserable (think: Avatar Blues). If they can at least visualize the worst of it occurring after they've had their fun, then they can put it out of their minds. I think that's morally unacceptable. I don't think we should all run out and blow up dams and cell phone towers like Derrick Jensen calls for, but I do think everyone has a moral obligation to at least start walking the path to freedom, as the Dervaes calls it.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby mos6507 » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 03:23:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('pablonite', '
')Seriously, talk to the old man about THIS theory and see if you start making some progress with him :)


Yeah, he'll stick one of these on your head.

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What a one-trick-pony you are, pablonite. All NWO, all the time.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ludi » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 07:04:19

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', 'I')t's hard to be angry with people who simply didn't realize what they were doing to the world.



I think it is willful ignorance, because the environmental movement started about the time I was born with the publication of Rachel Carson's Silent Spring. Environmental information was relatively mainstream by the mid-70s. So I have been exposed to information about limits to resources for almost half a century. I don't know how everyone else missed it.

But I agree it is not useful to blame other generations, though I can understand why people do feel anger at older folks like me.

I think people widely have the idea that "Someone will think of something" (see OP) or that someone else will take care of the problems. Folks also don't want to change if their neighbors aren't, so there's this idea that everyone has to magically change at once or the action is useless. You see this idea presented all the time here at po.com. Of course there's no mechanism in place for people to magically change all at once - change comes because some people start changing and then others follow. Action regarding limits to resources has not been very widespread, because it's counter to the way we live, which depends on growth.

It also doesn't make much sense to be angry at our elders if we're still not doing anything differently. Most of us still live relatively "normal" first world lives, because it takes real effort to live differently. We'd rather someone else make that effort.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby ColossalContrarian » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 10:07:06

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', 'I') was wondering if anyone else feels slightly annoyed and disgusted with being lumbered with the tab of peak oil by previous generations. In most cultures you are taught to respect your elders as they are meant to be 'wise'.


I was on the same rant you write about up until this week actually.

I'm constantly disgusted by the lavishness my Grandmother lives in while I sweet it out 55+ hours a week and live in an apartment across the street from Section 8 housing.

It's obvious that if I hadn't over indulged I might be in a better position but my position isn't that bad so I deal with it and don’t blame my Grandmother but future generations… What will they blame us for?

My anger at my Grandmother's generation where in her instance she only worked at most 15-20 years her entire life (she’s 84) and is sitting pretty on my grandfathers pension (who passed away) -yet at the same time she complains that it's not enough and that the democrats are taking all of the money she wishes to pass to me. I would like to have money passed to me but in all honesty I don't count on it. I'm mostly just angry that she's had a free ride for so long. I've posted in the past my anger toward older generations and how generational warfare is taking place.

An unexpected event happened this past week for me, on the 23rd. I had to take my Grandmother to the hospital because of a life threatening drug combination that the doctors missed. I was the only person available in the family to take my Grandma to the hospital. When I went to pick up my grandmother she looked terrible. She should have called an ambulance but at the time I just carried her to my car and drove her to the dermatologist she had an appointment with. The nurses took her in right away and the doctor did a biopsy and gave her some meds.

When I saw my grandma I was scared. She looked awful. I think it’s her fault for not contacting the dr’s sooner but still I feel like the right thing was done even though the same entitlements may never be available to me.

That day really made me question my stance on Medicare and such. It will suck to not have it when I need it but it’s nice for those we love now.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ludi » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 11:29:03

Your grandmother can begin immediately passing on money to you - democrats are not preventing her from doing this. 8O

Information about gifting: http://www.irs.gov/businesses/small/art ... 39,00.html
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby hillsidedigger » Sat 27 Mar 2010, 11:59:41

"God wants us to populate with people this planet to the point of standingroom only and then do it to other planets!" - Ann Coulter

"The world is yours, is was given to you, take it and rape it" - Ann Coulter

:o

These quotes are as I recall and I think most people do and have thought this way.

Ann's god is apparently 'da debil' and most people are and have been very deceived about what this world is all about.

I was talking about the pollution problem, peak-oil and the population crisis in high school (1970) and was condemned by teachers as being a trouble-maker.

During an interview (1972) with the board of a large company who was supposed to award me a very large college-scholarship my thoughts on the world situation became apparent to them and they denied me the scholarship saying people like me need not be rewarded for such views.

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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Plantagenet » Sun 28 Mar 2010, 23:03:08

Feel the anger! Let it grow within you!!

Feel the HATE! against older generations.

How dare these old people actually do anything to make their lives enjoyable and comfortable, when they should have been concentrating on living miserable impoverished lives so there would be more left over for YOU!
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Sixstrings » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 00:22:09

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', 'I') was wondering if anyone else feels slightly annoyed and disgusted with being lumbered with the tab of peak oil by previous generations. In most cultures you are taught to respect your elders as they are meant to be 'wise'. Personally I look at my grandparents and parents with disdain. My grandparents keep on asking me what went wrong with the world. I explain about population, resources and peak oil and then my grandmother laughs and says 'they will think of something'. Maybe it is amusing for her at 92+ as she is very much on her way out of this world.


Please don't take this as a flame, but that sounds a tad cold. Your gramma is 92 years old and she's seen her share of world catastrophes -- the Great Depression and world war (which was armageddon for a lot of people on this planet at the time). She probably remembers family dying from the Spanish Flu, etc. So my point is that your gramma has already had her crosses to bear, and peak oil is your generation's cross to bear. You didn't ask for it, but neither did she ask for the calamities of her generation.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'I') always wonder why it is 'they' must think of something, afterall the romans and mayans and all great civilisations that ever collapsed never managed to think of something.


Well, empires rise and fall and that's just the way it is. Rome in the east lived on for quite a while (1453AD, so that's a pretty darn good run for Rome, 2000 years from 509BC to 1453AD). And really, Rome in the west never died it just evolved. English and the romance languages are evolutions of Latin. Heck, go to the US capital and see for yourself all the Roman architecture. At its core, Western civilization IS Greco-Roman.

As for the Mayans, they are an example of civilization collapsing because it used up all its water, so you have a good analogy there.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('', 'M')y mother went on holiday to the great barrier reef when she was around 30 and we have numerous decorative pieces of coral around the house that she picked up and walked off with (whilst it was still living). To me it seems incredulous that people were so naive back then. Did they not ever stop to think what thousands of people doing so might impact on the environment?


Most people just don't think about things like that. What about people who have kids, do they seem to care that the Earth has too many people? Nope. For that matter, what if your mother HAD been more eco-aware and decided not to contribute to the world overpopulation problem? ;) That sounds facitious, but it's true you may not even be here if your mother had known everything you do now.

So to sum up, definitely go easy on your grandparents and never snap at them -- somebody who's 92 just needs to take it easy for crying out loud. The elderly are like children and need to be protected, so it's just best to spare them the doom and gloom.

As for the question posed.. no, I don't blame previous generations. I'd almost say I'm resentful that I had to live in this time, the time of Peak Everything and doom everywhere but then again it's not like the Great Depression would have been fun, and I imagine the Dark Ages was no walk in park. And I love computers and gadgets and the Internet, so no I wouldn't really want to live in 1952 either.

But having said all that I definitely understand how you feel. It's a bizarre time we're in, we're at the tail end of a world that can't keep going on the way it has for so long. And yet most of the society around us doesn't seem to realize things have changed and can't understand why we just don't get on with business as usual. It's frustrating, yup, but this is our era and we have to deal with it (for better or worse).
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby mos6507 » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 00:37:50

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Plantagenet', '
')Feel the anger! Let it grow within you!!

Feel the HATE! against older generations.


Sorry, man. McCain Lost already. You don't have to defend old people anymore.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ayame » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 02:20:53

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Plantagenet', 'F')eel the anger! Let it grow within you!!

Feel the HATE! against older generations.

How dare these old people actually do anything to make their lives enjoyable and comfortable, when they should have been concentrating on living miserable impoverished lives so there would be more left over for YOU!


I wouldn't go as far to say they shouldn't have comfortable or enjoyable lives. I am just confused as to why they wholeheartedly went into the business of unsustainably exploiting a non-renewable resource base virtually guaranteeing that there would be a massive die-off further along the line. I would be more than willing to live a frugile lifestyle in order to spare future generations such pain.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ayame » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 02:39:18

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', ' ')Please don't take this as a flame, but that sounds a tad cold. Your gramma is 92 years old and she's seen her share of world catastrophes -- the Great Depression and world war (which was armageddon for a lot of people on this planet at the time). She probably remembers family dying from the Spanish Flu, etc. So my point is that your gramma has already had her crosses to bear, and peak oil is your generation's cross to bear. You didn't ask for it, but neither did she ask for the calamities of her generation.


I believe one of my grandmothers brothers/sisters died through illness (not the spanish flu though). And yes my grandfather was in the war. He was on ships and lived in constant fear of being enclosed below decks as the ship sank if anything happened. He also walked into a courtyard of massacred people at one point. These were terrible things. Sometimes I wonder why people bring children into this world. I guess I am just miffed that peak oil was at one point avoidable if people had made the right choices and looked a bit further down the line. It wasn't brought onto us by our enemies or things out of our control, it was brought upon us by those who supposedly love us (parents, grandparents). This cross is going to be like hell on earth for a very long time. I volunteer for the local wildlife trust, they have open days where families come in. I can see the love between parents and their children and I can't help thinking that if these parents love and care for their children so much why is it they are effectively ensuring their suffering by carrying on with business as usual in the face of all the evidence.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', ' ')Well, empires rise and fall and that's just the way it is.

Grrrr. Then I don't like the way it is :cry:
All I know is that no descendant of mine will be locked in the eternal struggle in this world of survival vs. nature and other humans. The line stops here.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', 'M')ost people just don't think about things like that. What about people who have kids, do they seem to care that the Earth has too many people? Nope. For that matter, what if your mother HAD been more eco-aware and decided not to contribute to the world overpopulation problem? ;) That sounds facitious, but it's true you may not even be here if your mother had known everything you do now.


I never would have chosen to be part of this world if I had had the choice. Sadly I did not and here I am. In the past several years I can honestly say the best time I have had was when I was unconcious on the operating table having my wisdom teeth removed.

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Sixstrings', ' ')As for the question posed.. no, I don't blame previous generations. I'd almost say I'm resentful that I had to live in this time, the time of Peak Everything and doom everywhere but then again it's not like the Great Depression would have been fun, and I imagine the Dark Ages was no walk in park. And I love computers and gadgets and the Internet, so no I wouldn't really want to live in 1952 either.


Life has never been great. Maybe if one had been part of the first group of hunter gatherers to arrive in the Americas over the strait and have lived through the population explosion there. Or part of the fist indigneous peoples arriving in New Zealand who could just go around clobbering flightless birds and probably party and make babies all night.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby mos6507 » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 02:43:36

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', '
')I am just confused as to why they wholeheartedly went into the business of unsustainably exploiting a non-renewable resource base virtually guaranteeing that there would be a massive die-off further along the line. I would be more than willing to live a frugile lifestyle in order to spare future generations such pain.


You really think they knew that would be the end result? Come on, man. What seems obvious to us is invisible to most. Even today people are eating up New-Trek, even as NASA is gutted. Lots of people still hold onto techno-utopian visions of the future.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ayame » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 02:59:51

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('mos6507', '')$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', '
')I am just confused as to why they wholeheartedly went into the business of unsustainably exploiting a non-renewable resource base virtually guaranteeing that there would be a massive die-off further along the line. I would be more than willing to live a frugile lifestyle in order to spare future generations such pain.


You really think they knew that would be the end result? Come on, man. What seems obvious to us is invisible to most. Even today people are eating up New-Trek, even as NASA is gutted. Lots of people still hold onto techno-utopian visions of the future.


:-D Well then they should rename our species homo moderately sapiens. I guess I expect too much.
I often think I am a different breed of human. Doesn't anyone, any politician etc. look at the global population chart and realise something is a bit amiss? I know that a few people sense something. A lady I know at the Wildlife Trust says she is not going to bring a child into this world. I am sure the sheeple sense something on the wind even if they can't pinpoint it.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ludi » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 06:27:48

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', ' ')Doesn't anyone, any politician etc. look at the global population chart and realise something is a bit amiss?



Probably a lot do, but to suggest reducing population immediately causes people to start screaming "You want to kill everyone!" It is a very very touchy subject. Politicians tend to try to avoid questioning the status quo. Their jobs depend on the status quo.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Sixstrings » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 07:25:53

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ayame', 'I') never would have chosen to be part of this world if I had had the choice. Sadly I did not and here I am. In the past several years I can honestly say the best time I have had was when I was unconcious on the operating table having my wisdom teeth removed.


Hm.. don't know that to say to that, other than if that's not just a rhetorical flourish and you really have peak oil blues, please get out and have some fun. It's not like all the problems of the world are your fault, or your parents for that matter. However the grand scheme of things works out, it will be as intended, since there are no mistakes in the course of evolution.

(In other words, never let Doom stop you from enjoying life. It's possible to live sustainably and responsibly and yet still have fun. Take responsibility for just your actions, and don't be so bothered about what others do or don't do.)
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Ludi » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 07:30:34

Seems like very serious, long-term depression to me. :(

There's so much beauty and wonder in life. Even a lot of the horrible parts can be fascinating in their own way.
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Re: Anger at past generations

Unread postby Sixstrings » Mon 29 Mar 2010, 07:37:45

$this->bbcode_second_pass_quote('Ludi', 'S')eems like very serious, long-term depression to me. :(

There's so much beauty and wonder in life. Even a lot of the horrible parts can be fascinating in their own way.


I'd be lying if I said peak everything didn't depress me, and especially all this econodoom and a possible bleak future depresses the hell out of me. So when that happens, I go cook something from scratch and then I think "screw the world if it all ends, I just made some fantastic bread and nobody can change that." :lol: Cooking is my therapy, since I can control it 100% from start to finish.

Back to depression, we're not psychologists here but I just hope everyone remembers to keep these big issues we talk about in perspective.
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